Self Gratification

[Kimberley]

My internet porn question brought me to another question. Does self gratification constitues as cheating? Let's say they'd rather have sex with themselves than you. How do you feel about this?

[Kristy]

Masturbation? That's not cheating either! I honestly can't even imagine a world where masturbation would be considered cheating.

[Kimberley]

Masturbation? That's not cheating either! I honestly can't even imagine a world where masturbation would be considered cheating.

hehe! I know but if you think about it...how many women have gotten pissed at their significant others when they catch them in the act?

[Kristy]

It would turn me on for sure.

[Chimchim]

I don't consititute it as cheating, but it should never replace the intimacy between a couple. When it does, then there's an issue, especially when coupled with internet porn.

[ginab]

well i hope i never have to run into seeing that.. oh no....!!!!!

[Cribal]

I don't consititute it as cheating, but it should never replace the intimacy between a couple. When it does, then there's an issue, especially when coupled with internet porn.

Yea, it's not cheating and no I wouldn't be mad if I walked in on my hubby doing it. Now I know I wouldn't like to walk in on him doing it to a porn mag. or to internet porn. Now that would cause some issues.

Crystal

[Janet]

I must be an ole stick in the mud, but ...gross!! LOLOL
I don't consider it cheating, but guess if they like taking things into their own hands, who's to complain, LOL :D

[Mandy]

I don't know how i would react if i had to walk in on him, either ide be shocked or ide laugh so loud and ask him to cheat on he's right hand, and use the left one.

YUK... i think ide hate to see it!

Thanks i have this mental picture now LOL

[Pink Cupcakes]

No I don't constitute it as cheating, hell if it were I'd be guilty of it (in the toy sense) lol, sorry to be so blunt here but if you go read my post to the nitty gritty poll you'll know why I have to do this crap!! :mad: And trust me, I'd rather not do it but God, what other choice do I freaking have!! Anyway, as I said I don't constitute it as cheating however- if he did this all the time and I knew about it- I would be pissed. Again, read my post to the nitty gritty poll and you'll know why. If he has the desire for self gratification but not for me, yeah- shit would be hitting the fan. That would piss me off to no end.

[RLC12345678]

I don't consititute it as cheating, but it should never replace the intimacy between a couple. When it does, then there's an issue, especially when coupled with internet porn.


I agree 100% with this.

[Amber_lv]

no i don't think it's cheating but if they will not give you any then i say it's a problem

[ice queen]

does this mean he's cheating on you with himself???hahahalol!!!no i've caught my hubby doing it and it doesn't bother me...sometimes i'm like eeewwww:eek: and walk out of the room and other times i'm like "hey big boy...ya need some help with that?";) ;) ;) :rolleyes: what can i say....

[Amber_lv]

does this mean he's cheating on you with himself???hahahalol!!!no i've caught my hubby doing it and it doesn't bother me...sometimes i'm like eeewwww:eek: and walk out of the room and other times i'm like "hey big boy...ya need some help with that?";) ;) ;) :rolleyes: what can i say....
Rotflmao you are so funny my husband would die and go to heaven if i asked him if he wanted help lol

[Necee419]

I don't think it is cheating. I have actually encouraged my husband to "handle his business" on my period weeks when he is crawling out of his skin. He refuses because he says he left those days behind when he met me. Now as someone else said, if it replaces sex altogether, then there is a problem.

[Ponyup]

No it's not cheating. However, if I'm ready, willing & available he better be doing me & not miss rosie palms. However, if for some reason I am not available I would rather that than him getting it from someone else.

There have been times in the past where I really needed to get off & he wasn't in the mood or whatever & I would of totally manually stimulated myself if I wasn't terrified to do so. I don't know why, but I've never been able to take care of myself, I really wish I could, but I get really self-conscious.

[rivermom]

My internet porn question brought me to another question. Does self gratification constitues as cheating? Let's say they'd rather have sex with themselves than you. How do you feel about this?


Why would they rather have sex with themselves then you? LOL, that's my question. :D If it's just masturbation than I find nothing wrong with that, go at it! I don't feel this is cheating in the least. But if "they'd rather please them self than have you do it", ugh...Id wanna know why?

[Carolyn]

I don't consider it cheating but I can't even imagine walking in on THAT! I don't know whether I would get mad or laugh hysterically.

[ice queen]

No it's not cheating. However, if I'm ready, willing & available he better be doing me & not miss rosie palms. However, if for some reason I am not available I would rather that than him getting it from someone else.

There have been times in the past where I really needed to get off & he wasn't in the mood or whatever & I would of totally manually stimulated myself if I wasn't terrified to do so. I don't know why, but I've never been able to take care of myself, I really wish I could, but I get really self-conscious.
i used to be like that but when my hubby got sent to iraq i needed something to work the knots out and sitting on the washing machine wasn't cutting it!!!:D so one day me and my best friend went to the "toy" store as i call it and we picked up some stuff that worked for me...plus if you are self-conscious about actually touching yourself that is what these things are for. my fav....it's kinda expensive but it's da BOMB is the jackrabbit-get the waterproof so you can take a bubble bath and take care of yourself too!!! i thought my hubby would be all jealous but it actually turned him on and sometimes we use toys when we are making love,,,,,there is nothing wrong with trying new things!!! so be sure to buy a lot of batteries!!!good luck and hope this helps;) ;) :D :D :D

[Sherry Lynn]

I don't consider it cheating but I can't even imagine walking in on THAT! I don't know whether I would get mad or laugh hysterically.

Haha! I'm with ya' there girl!

But lets face it.... if they didn't do it they would self-combust!:eek: