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2tiredmom
09-14-2006, 01:18 PM
Moved 4 years ago and never hear from my past coworkers. They stood up with me when I got married. Sure they show up for funerals and then some don't even do that. It's really dissappointing to me. I try and keep in touch with them but it's a 2 way street. I miss home. Don't get me wrong I have made friends here but after 40 years from there i would have thought some of them would have remained in touch. Thanks for listening.
Kimberley
09-14-2006, 02:28 PM
Many times we get so busy with our every day life that we forget to stay friends to those that were once dear. I know I've been guilty of that.
magnolia
09-14-2006, 02:47 PM
I agree with Kimberly. As we grow older, move away from family and dear friends, we lose touch. Life has a way of interferring. I am so guilty of that! My absolute best friend in the whole, wide world has not called me or written me in 2 years - but as you said, it works 2 ways and I've not called her. She lives outside Pensacola where I grew up - I go back to visit my family there but never think to call her until I'm half-way back home! I just get caught up with my sister and her family that I just simply forget or tell myself I'll call tomorrow. If you have their addresses or a way to get it, make the first step - send a card to let them know you're thinking of them - they may be sitting there thinking the same thing as you so break the ice first. Good luck!
Janet
09-14-2006, 03:46 PM
It's sad that it happens, but it does. People are so busy it seems and when they have a moment, they use it to relax or reflect or just chill. I know I'm guilty of that a lot. We had some older neighbors that lived just down the road. I adored the woman. She had so many wonderfu stories. My son even called them grandpa and grandma. They moved to town about 6 or 7 years ago and we call each other now and again, but just not often. I miss her. I have tried calling, but if she is not home, I just get busy doing something else and don't get back to trying to call again for a couple months. Don't take it personal, it's just the way life is, what a shame.
Mandy
09-15-2006, 09:28 AM
Many times we get so busy with our every day life that we forget to stay friends to those that were once dear. I know I've been guilty of that.
That's true, and i'm guilty of this also :rolleyes:
Amber_lv
09-17-2006, 08:27 PM
life consumes us it's nice when we stop and smell the flowers though
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