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cindy0721
09-15-2006, 10:57 AM
What is your Hubby's/ Significant Other's best quality?


1.He is soooo helpful and knows how to take care of his woman.....(get your mind out of the gutter girls...lol):p

2. He is very handy around the house

3. He loves my Gizmo like you would not believe......:D


** Bonus .. he's a big kid at heart.....***:thumbup:

Tink
09-15-2006, 11:09 AM
What is your Hubby's/ Significant Other's best quality?

1. He has a crazy sense of humor and loves to make me laugh.

2. He is wonderful with babies. I love to see a big guy willing and able to just cuddle and totally enjoy tiny ones!

3. 90% of the time he lets me just make my own decisions and do my own thing without needing to try to control me or interfere. Whether that means changing jobs, taking classes, redecorating our home, or whatever.

cindy0721
09-15-2006, 11:11 AM
What is your Hubby's/ Significant Other's best quality?

3. 90% of the time he lets me just make my own decisions and do my own thing without needing to try to control me or interfere. Whether that means changing jobs, taking classes, redecorating our home, or whatever.


Hubby too... he never asks or calls to double check on me ever... I have friends who can't cut their hair or go anywhere with out permission.. thank god I didn't get one of those... I would be divorced....;)

ldenise
09-15-2006, 11:15 AM
oh golly. lets see.........
1. good sense of humor

2. loves to take me places (traveling)

3. willing to do most anything for the yorkies and grandchildren

4. good to his friends

5. good at telling off people if they need it!

oh no that was too many wasn't it?

cindy0721
09-15-2006, 11:17 AM
oh golly. lets see.........
1. good sense of humor

2. loves to take me places (traveling)

3. willing to do most anything for the yorkies and grandchildren

4. good to his friends

5. good at telling off people if they need it!

oh no that was too many wasn't it?


haa haa you cheated... lol.. itss ok.. with a hubby like bob the bear I can't blame ya... everytime I see him he reminds me of a cuddly teddy bear.... something about him is so comforting... lol... must be those eyes... hee hee lol..

hle_625
09-15-2006, 11:54 AM
Lets see...

1. Bitching

2. Complaining

3. Moaning

LOL! Just kidding my hubby is really sweet and caring.

These are my for real answers :D

1. Great sense of humor

2. Trusting

3. Very helpful when I ask him!

Mandy
09-15-2006, 12:03 PM
1. Great sense of humor.

2. Has a huge heart, adores the fur kids, will do ANYTHING for them and our son.

3. Loves to take me places.


Awwww he's sweet LOL...

2tiredmom
09-15-2006, 01:20 PM
Hubby is quite handy around the house. My mister fix it and he also cooks and helps clean and does laundry. Comforts me when I cry. Gives great back rubs.
I don't know what I would do with out him and i don't want to find out.

Meg
09-15-2006, 01:23 PM
My hubby is the best!! I could write lots, but here are my three--

1-Extremely thoughtful of me and my needs.

2-He is so much fun, he is funny and very fun loving.

3-Hard working and willing to do what it takes to get things done.

Janet
09-15-2006, 03:22 PM
You ladies are so darn LUCKY!! :) I am having a hard time coming up with something....LOL Let see...

1. I know I can count on him if I really need him
2. Good Dad
3. "blank"

I'll tell you one thing.....if he becomes this wonderful husband after I lose this weight....he's gonna regret it!!!! :eek:


It's not that he is a bad person...don't get me wrong...but he lost his mother when he was 10 years old and he and his older brother and younger sister were babied beyond relief by their maternal grandmother. All three can be very selfish, don't communicate well, and just don't always show their true feelings. It's been a struggle at times...but, hey, I'm still here.

Lindsey
09-15-2006, 07:11 PM
1. Calls me cutie when all I'm trying to do is be grumpy
2. Sense of humor
3. Says he hates small dogs, but fell in love with mine :D

Yep, I've got me a keeper :)

cindy0721
09-15-2006, 07:40 PM
You ladies are so darn LUCKY!! :) I am having a hard time coming up with something....LOL Let see...

1. I know I can count on him if I really need him
2. Good Dad
3. "blank"

I'll tell you one thing.....if he becomes this wonderful husband after I lose this weight....he's gonna regret it!!!! :eek:


It's not that he is a bad person...don't get me wrong...but he lost his mother when he was 10 years old and he and his older brother and younger sister were babied beyond relief by their maternal grandmother. All three can be very selfish, don't communicate well, and just don't always show their true feelings. It's been a struggle at times...but, hey, I'm still here.

dont feel bad... My husband was abandoned by his maternal mother and raised by his grandma ... he is not a affectionate man nor does he express his feelings very well unless he is mad.... hes a pro.. BUT through the years I have managed to earn his trust and lil by lil we are getting there... I hope.... remember that saying" God Makes , God Joins them.. God Keeps them together.... well thats us...lol

magnolia
09-15-2006, 07:56 PM
1. Loving husband and father who's ALWAYS there for his family. His parents divorced when he was 9 months old and his dad chose not to be a part of his life until he reached adult-hood. His dad never went to little league games, football games, nothing. When we had our first, he told me he was scared to be a dad because he had not had an "example" growing up. Well, he didn't need an example, he's done good!!

2. His "chipmunk" cheeks!!! Don't get me wrong, he is not fat by any means (he's a fireman, can't afford to be that way) but he has the most adorable cheeks - looks like he could store food for the winter in there :D

3. His love for my furbabies, especially Gage. Gage is a rescue and he was adamant that we were NOT going to have 2 dogs in the house!! I told him Gage would stay for just a couple of weeks and if it didn't work out, I'd find him a new forever home (any place was better than where he had been!). Well, here we are 17 months later and Gage is still here. He tells EVERYONE who asks about Gage that he's a rescue, came from a bad environment, but he's the most sweetest and cutest dog!! He really opened his heart up to Gage:)

rivermom
09-16-2006, 06:14 PM
His morals and values.

His ability to work hard and never complain about it.

Constantly touching me, giving me attention, and telling me he loves me.

Loving my fur kids just as much as I do, even talking baby talk to them.

He loves his family and is always there for them.

You can always count on him for anything.

He wakes up in a good mood everyday. (how does he do that?)

He allows me to be me.

He loves me.

He's faithful and trustworthy.

He would do anything I asked of him.

I know this is more than 3 but I couldn't help myself.

Janet
09-17-2006, 03:50 AM
His morals and values.

His ability to work hard and never complain about it.

Constantly touching me, giving me attention, and telling me he loves me.

Loving my fur kids just as much as I do, even talking baby talk to them.

He loves his family and is always there for them.

You can always count on him for anything.

He wakes up in a good mood everyday. (how does he do that?)

He allows me to be me.

He loves me.

He's faithful and trustworthy.

He would do anything I asked of him.

I know this is more than 3 but I couldn't help myself.



WOW, how wonderful for you. I wish I could go back in time and do things differenty, then maybe I could list at least half of what you did. I am truly envious.

rivermom
09-17-2006, 04:28 AM
WOW, how wonderful for you. I wish I could go back in time and do things differenty, then maybe I could list at least half of what you did. I am truly envious.


Awww Janet. I am sure many of us wish we could go back and change certain things. I sure know I would too about some things.

Janet
09-17-2006, 10:06 AM
dont feel bad... My husband was abandoned by his maternal mother and raised by his grandma ... he is not a affectionate man nor does he express his feelings very well unless he is mad.... hes a pro.. BUT through the years I have managed to earn his trust and lil by lil we are getting there... I hope.... remember that saying" God Makes , God Joins them.. God Keeps them together.... well thats us...lol

My hubby doesn't communicate well at all about anything. It is so strange, but when they lost his mother, his dad took it very hard and they were told not to upset daddy. Everytime I've ever asked if something was wrong, he always said "nothing". After a while I just quit asking. If he doesn't want to share and maybe let me help him, then he can deal with it on his own. Very disturbing.

Amber_lv
09-18-2006, 06:44 AM
he does anything i ask and he gives me breaks from the kids and he lets me sleep in

RLC12345678
09-18-2006, 08:49 AM
1. Extremely intelligent...he is seriously the smartest person I've ever met. I feel like I get smarter everytime I have a conversation with him.

2. He is a traditional man...he takes great care of me...Despite his 80 hour a week work schedule, I am his #1 priority (after God of course).

3. I know he will be a fantastic father just by seeing how he loves and cares for our furbabies

RLC12345678
09-18-2006, 08:50 AM
90% of the time he lets me just make my own decisions and do my own thing without needing to try to control me or interfere. Whether that means changing jobs, taking classes, redecorating our home, or whatever.


AND this one too! :D :D :D

RLC12345678
09-18-2006, 08:52 AM
Hubby too... he never asks or calls to double check on me ever... I have friends who can't cut their hair or go anywhere with out permission.. thank god I didn't get one of those... I would be divorced....;)


Ditto, Cindy!!!!!!! Whenever hubby attempts to tell me what to do, I tell him that I am a grown woman with a job and if I wanted someone to tell me what to do, I will still be living with my parents! :p :p :p

Does anyone watch SouthPark?? Have you seen the episode when Cartman goes on the Maury show pretending to be a delinquent teen? He repeats the phrase, "I do what I want!!" Well, when hubby tries to tell me what to do, I say in my "Cartman" voice, "I DO WHAT I WANT!" :p :p :p Hubby laughs everytime!

ginab
09-18-2006, 11:09 AM
awww, im so glad you all have great husbands,, how nice!!

RLC12345678
09-18-2006, 11:10 AM
awww, im so glad you all have great husbands,, how nice!!


Gina, you have a TERRIFIC bf, tell us about him!

ginab
09-18-2006, 11:27 AM
ok then,,
ummmmm

he's nice, generous, does what ever i want him to do. marriage material, but
im chicken shit... ummm just totally infactuated with me and i dont know why..
i know im frigging nuts, i should jump on that huh??? very jealous though..
is kinda old fashion ... just totally trust worthy... hes just all around the perfect
boyfriend, im the one thats the sicko

RLC12345678
09-18-2006, 12:01 PM
ok then,,
ummmmm

he's nice, generous, does what ever i want him to do. marriage material, but
im chicken shit... ummm just totally infactuated with me and i dont know why..
i know im frigging nuts, i should jump on that huh??? very jealous though..
is kinda old fashion ... just totally trust worthy... hes just all around the perfect
boyfriend, im the one thats the sicko


So, WHAT ARE YOU WAITING ON, girl?! :p :p :p Just kidding. It is a big step to get married. Why fix something that's not broken?! ;)

ginab
09-18-2006, 12:18 PM
i have already been married and went down that road and just scared to death.
i have everything i need now.. i own my own house, bought my x out. i have a
good job , great family and i have lexi, what more do i need???
dont want to share what i have and what i worked so so hard for... not that i will
ever give up my home, but just scared .. not sure what i want anymore and he knows is and i feel bad... im just comfortable too.... and mind you after my divorce i lived with another man for 2 years and didnt go well at all sooooooooooooo.
ya see what i mean

Janet
09-18-2006, 02:34 PM
Sounds like you know what you're doing. Why rush....? and like mentioned before, why fix it if it aint broken!!!

TamChristopher
09-19-2006, 04:20 AM
1. Always makes me smile, no matter how bad I may not want to
2. He always finds a way to touch me, wether it's holding my hand, rubbing my shoulders, (smacking my butt lol). It makes me feel good that he always wants to be close to me
3. He LOVES to cuddle!
4. He makes me feel secure
5. I can trust him with anything and everything!
6. He hugs, kisses me and tells me he loves me anytime we leave the house

We have been together for 11 years now (I'm 25 you do the math lol) We are high school sweethearts! He is my best friend, and I still to this day get excited when I get to go home after work and see him! I think we have something special! ;)

Tammy

Sherry Lynn
09-19-2006, 04:41 AM
1. Quick wit/sense of humor are first and foremost! I just can't get mad at him. When I start to get BI-itchy he just makes me laugh.

2. Kind/generous/thoughtful/affectionate

3. Intelligent/hardworking/ethical/excellent communicator

I could go on and on and on.....

Tomorrow is our 15th wedding anniversary (we've lived together for 20 years) and I can't imagine life without him. He's the best friend I've ever had... and again, he's easy on the eye!:p

Kimberley
09-19-2006, 06:03 PM
Oh, geez! You want me to list my redneck husband's best qualities??? YEAH, RIGHT!

Actually,

1) He makes me laugh.

2) He listens to me when I cry and holds me.

3) He doesn't argue back very often which makes me pretty happy!

Passionfruition
04-05-2007, 06:40 PM
My husband Eli and I have been married 3 years now (3 years as of February). (HERE is our favorite wedding portrait (http://img184.imageshack.us/img184/3848/wedgd2.jpg).)

Hmm, Eli's three best qualities as a husband/person are....

1) He's a great conversationalist. He is fun and interesting to talk to. We can talk even when we're upset with each other, we are good at chit-chat. It's the 1st thing I noticed about him when we first met.

2) He has a great sense of humor and his laugh is contagious.

3) He "gets" me. - And ladies, you know how hard it is to find someone who "gets" you. Eli can read my mind when everyone else is going.....huh? LOL.

This was fun. He'll be excited when I tell him about what I wrote about him! :)

AngieDoogles
04-05-2007, 10:16 PM
Wow! It's hard to pick just three! Okay, I'll try my hardest to pick the absolute BEST things even though it's hard to decide...

1. Brendon is always VERY attentive to me and my needs. He can tell the moment something is wrong and does his very best to make it better.

2. He is one of the most caring and compassionate people I have ever met in my life. He truly empathizes with others and wants the best for everyone. His dad said recently that when Brendon was young, he would end his prayers with "bless everyone in the WHOLE world" and that he truly meant it. He still has this same attitude today. :)

3. He can make anyone laugh, any time! No matter how sad I am or how sad a friend may be, he can cheer me or them up in no time. He is just so fun to be around and conversations with him are amazing. My favorite time of the day is at night when we are lying in bed talking about the day. We can be incredibly serious, or we can laugh our heads off...all in the same conversation. I love the closeness we are able to share because of his openness and easy-going nature.

Everyday, he makes me feel like the luckiest girl in the world. He is my Prince Charming. :)

Alright, sorry to be so sappy. lol. I just...well, I still smile every time I think about him and I love any opportunity to tell others just how I feel about this wonderful man I am lucky enough to be able to call "my husband." :1luvu:

Janet
04-06-2007, 04:04 AM
And Angie....he's very sweet to your friends...I know!!!

AngieDoogles
04-06-2007, 06:19 AM
And Angie....he's very sweet to your friends...I know!!!

LoL Janet! He thought you were just so nice and funny! He'd heard a lot about you before talking to you though. :) We're looking forward to chatting with you again today...

Lissa
04-06-2007, 12:45 PM
My husband Eli and I have been married 3 years now (3 years as of February). (HERE is our favorite wedding portrait (http://img184.imageshack.us/img184/3848/wedgd2.jpg).)


That portrait is beautiful, and your hubby is gorgeous!! ;)


I'm not married to him, but I may be some day.

1. He trusts me enough to tell me anything, and I know I could tell him anything.

2. I can tell from the look in his eyes that he's telling me the truth when he says he thinks I'm beautiful and cute and perfect, even though I don't believe it myself.

3. He understands that I've got a little issue with jealousy and doesn't give me a hard time about it, instead he makes me feel like I'm the only girl on the planet.

4. (I know it was three but this goes hand in hand with the others) He understands me and knows it's difficult for me to share my thoughts with him. When I do work up the courage to tell him about things that bother me he gives me his undivided attention, and tells me exactly what I need to hear.