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judy
10-07-2007, 09:02 AM
I've been off more than on lately, and I have to say - it's so good to visit with you all.
This is a wonderful place, and you are dear, dear friends.

I see a therapist once a month since this business with my daughter got really bad. I told him about 4WT and he could not get over what a wonderful idea this is. I would never get to meet most of you since we live so far from each other, but caring so much about each other across the miles is such a gift.

Lots of love and prayers to all of you,

Judy
Mandy
10-07-2007, 11:21 AM
Judy, it's great to have you back, and wonderful to have you as a friend, and i really mean that. It is wonderful to have friends on here, even though we are virtual, we are for real, and you can always count on us. Nice thing about this place is, no one ever frowns upon anyone, theres no judgement, and we can be who/what we are, and say whats on our minds.

I really, and truly care for all my friends here.

Lots of love & hugs to you, Judy.
AngieDoogles
10-08-2007, 11:41 AM
Judy, I'm so glad you are back! I've missed you the past week or so. I hope things are going well for you. Remember, no matter how long you are away, we're still here whenever you are ready to come back and chat. :)

*hugs*
judy
10-08-2007, 05:10 PM
:1luvu: :1luvu: :1luvu: :1luvu: :cup: :1luvu: :1luvu: :1luvu: :1luvu:
Gina
10-08-2007, 06:54 PM
Hi Judy,

I am happy to see you back, and glad that you are seeing a therapist. I hope that you will find some peace with what is going on in your life.. Yes this place is a wonderful place to come to and vent their problems and happiness all the ladies are wonderful and if we could meet I know that we would all be friends. Judy one day in the near future I will meet you for coffee when I come to Bklyn, promise :) In the meantime stay strong...

Love to you Judy and all my other 4wt friends!
judy
10-09-2007, 08:44 AM
I love my therapist. He always agrees with whatever I say!
Where are you going to get that?

He was also my marriage counselor. He listened to me and then to my ex at our first session. He sat there for a minute, and then pointed at Joel, and said to him, "You. You're the problem. She's not doing anything wrong."

It doesn't get much better than that moment.:yelrotflmao: :yelrotflmao: :yelrotflmao:
DianaB
10-09-2007, 09:16 AM
Judy, I'm glad to hear that you're getting some counseling for the problems with your daughter. You know that you're special to us and we're here for you anytime you need us. We have a great group of women and we have a special bond between all of us even though we've never met in person. I know that my family and my friends don't understand that I can have close friends that I've never met. My conversation is filled with things that are said on here or something about what someone is going through. That's cool that your therapist thinks that what we have is great. I think that I like him too!!!!
AngieDoogles
10-11-2007, 10:53 AM
I love my therapist. He always agrees with whatever I say!
Where are you going to get that?

He was also my marriage counselor. He listened to me and then to my ex at our first session. He sat there for a minute, and then pointed at Joel, and said to him, "You. You're the problem. She's not doing anything wrong."

It doesn't get much better than that moment.:yelrotflmao: :yelrotflmao: :yelrotflmao:

Oh my! That's an interesting approach for a marriage counselor to take. I bet your ex was just floored! lol
judy
10-11-2007, 01:51 PM
It was a once in a lifetime moment I will cherish all of my life!:bravo: :tongue009: :60: :excited: :coolsmiley: :cheer: :2party:
Marilyn
10-13-2007, 03:46 PM
Judy, it is great that you are back!!! I've been AWOL a lot lately, too, but I'm really trying to get on here more. I do miss all of you. Your therapist is right, we do have a great thing going here. So glad you are getting some positive help. We are here anytime you need some encouragement.

I won't be getting to NYC this year, but maybe next year in the fall. If so, we have to try to meet.

Love you!!!
judy
10-13-2007, 04:30 PM
Marilyn,

We'll have a ball!
Janet
10-18-2007, 06:50 AM
Hey Judy...I want to go to your therapist too!!! I could really use one.

I've missed all you ladies so much. There is so much truth to all these posts about the support and caring that goes on here. I really need to visit more often...I need you all.
AngieDoogles
10-18-2007, 02:01 PM
Hey Judy...I want to go to your therapist too!!! I could really use one.

I've missed all you ladies so much. There is so much truth to all these posts about the support and caring that goes on here. I really need to visit more often...I need you all.

We need you too Janet! Just never stay away for too long, we might have Janet-withdrawals! lol
DianaB
10-19-2007, 10:26 AM
....... we might have Janet-withdrawals! lol

What do you mean.... we MIGHT have Janet withdrawals? We HAVE been having Janet withdrawals!!!!!!!!:D
katepoet
10-19-2007, 11:48 AM
I had a counselor tell me something like that in college - "It's not you, you're fine! It's the people who are making you feel bad who are not OK." It really helped me to get more picky over my choices in friends.
AngieDoogles
10-19-2007, 07:27 PM
What do you mean.... we MIGHT have Janet withdrawals? We HAVE been having Janet withdrawals!!!!!!!!:D

I'm sorry! What was I thinking?? We HAVE been having withdrawals! Janet, don't ever do that to us again. lol :p
judy
10-21-2007, 08:35 AM
Dear Kate,

That's great! Sometimes, everybody else IS crazy.
judy
10-21-2007, 08:38 AM
Dear Janet,

I haven't been on in a couple of days - I've been really busy. Why have you been gone? Get your butt back here, Ms. Pisces.

Seriously, I hope all is well.

I love you:heart:

Judy
katepoet
10-21-2007, 08:39 AM
You got it, Judy! The tough part is finding the ones whose craziness is in perfect harmony with your own! How are we all doing here on 4wt? Harmony...
judy
10-21-2007, 10:11 AM
Yeah. It is lovely here.
AngieDoogles
10-21-2007, 07:21 PM
Yeah. It is lovely here.

It definitely is lovely, isn't it? :)
Mandy
10-22-2007, 01:27 AM
Hey Judy...I want to go to your therapist too!!! I could really use one.

I've missed all you ladies so much. There is so much truth to all these posts about the support and caring that goes on here. I really need to visit more often...I need you all.



You get back here soon as you can girl, i have wondered why you have been "away" ... we miss you!!!!