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Ponyup
09-19-2006, 01:00 PM
This thread is so I can say I did my part today & started a thread.

I don't know how to insert a poll or I would. Do you or don't you? If you do did it take you a while to get comfortable or did you just go for it?

I've never done & it personally makes me a little shy to even think about actually doing it. At the last toy party I went to I bought a little waterproof buddy that's still sitting in his package in the drawer, I just can't bring myself to do it.

What a thread huh?

rivermom
09-19-2006, 01:24 PM
There is NOTHING wrong IMO with self satisfication. And besides, I honestly feel we at times can please our ownselves better than with a partner.

I've never had issues personally with it, I began when I was a teen. Obviously I am not too shy to say so either, LOL.

I feel if you are not comfortable knowing your body and what feels good, then it makes it more difficult to know what you would like with your partner, or how to tell him.

Go for it. Glass of wine, hot bath, your waterproof buddy, lights down low, be alone, and ease your mind. :thumbup:

Ponyup
09-19-2006, 01:28 PM
There is NOTHING wrong IMO with self satisfication. And besides, I honestly feel we at times can please our ownselves better than with a partner.

I've never had issues personally with it, I began when I was a teen. Obviously I am not too shy to say so either, LOL.

I feel if you are not comfortable knowing your body and what feels good, then it makes it more difficult to know what you would like with your partner, or how to tell him.

Go for it. Glass of wine, hot bath, your waterproof buddy, lights down low, be alone, and ease your mind. :thumbup:

My husband plays ball on thurs. night maybe this thurs. I won't go & see if I can't work something out.

Mandy
09-19-2006, 01:31 PM
There is NOTHING wrong IMO with self satisfication. And besides, I honestly feel we at times can please our ownselves better than with a partner.

I've never had issues personally with it, I began when I was a teen. Obviously I am not too shy to say so either, LOL.

I feel if you are not comfortable knowing your body and what feels good, then it makes it more difficult to know what you would like with your partner, or how to tell him.

Go for it. Glass of wine, hot bath, your waterproof buddy, lights down low, be alone, and ease your mind. :thumbup:


I agree!! I can imagine the "shyness" playing a role, but there's no one to watch you. It's only a good thing if you know your body, that way it's a lot easier to let your partner know your wants and needs :)

rivermom
09-19-2006, 01:37 PM
LMAO - After this thread gets going, there is going to be an awful lot of ladies from 4wt taking hot baths tonight. :p

Mandy
09-19-2006, 01:47 PM
I wanna add, it's GREAT with candle light :D :yelrotflmao: and don't forget a glass of champagne LOL

Mandy78
09-19-2006, 02:04 PM
....and don't forget the pretty smelling candles!!!! LOL!

Amber_lv
09-19-2006, 02:08 PM
I do it I love it I recomend it LOL :thumbup: :eek:

Amber_lv
09-19-2006, 02:09 PM
Honey just treat it like you were a man taking you out on a date feed you get you drunk and take advantage of yourself lol

rivermom
09-19-2006, 02:12 PM
Honey just treat it like you were a man taking you out on a date feed you get you drunk and take advantage of yourself lol


For sure!!!!!!!! :D

Janet
09-19-2006, 03:07 PM
OMG!!! HERE WE GO AGAIN LORD.....

I've got to get out of this thread...help me, help me!!!!:eek:

I can't get out of here!!!!!!!!!!!!! :eek: :eek:

Where's my darn back key....:eek:

Janet
09-19-2006, 03:08 PM
LMAO - After this thread gets going, there is going to be an awful lot of ladies from 4wt taking hot baths tonight. :p


Hey!!!! Where is everybody??????:p

Janet
09-19-2006, 03:09 PM
Honey just treat it like you were a man taking you out on a date feed you get you drunk and take advantage of yourself lol


Ohhhhhh Lordy! Lordy! Any one have a good recipe???

Necee419
09-19-2006, 03:09 PM
I was always pretty bashful about this myself. (I was raised Catholic with all the guilt that comes along with it). It took my husband to coach me in this and he actually encourages me to do this for myself (of course he gets to peek;) ). Because of him, I bought a "toy". He is really open to all sorts of experiences and has taught me alot. I think it is important that you learn what feels good to you so that you can convey this to your partner.

Amber_lv
09-19-2006, 03:13 PM
OMG!!! HERE WE GO AGAIN LORD.....

I've got to get out of this thread...help me, help me!!!!:eek:

I can't get out of here!!!!!!!!!!!!! :eek: :eek:

Where's my darn back key....:eek:
lol Janet!!!

Shannon
09-19-2006, 04:25 PM
Before I was in my current relationship, I did it everyday. I always thought I was a sex fiend. I thought I was more like a man than a woman. Anyway, since I have been in this relationship, I can probably count on one hand how many times I have done it. Does touching yourself while having sex with someone else count?;)

Kimberley
09-19-2006, 06:19 PM
OMG! There IS another website similar to this one for this kind of talk.:o I plead the fifth on this topic.

Mandy78
09-19-2006, 06:24 PM
OMG! There IS another website similar to this one for this kind of talk.:o I plead the fifth on this topic.



I know you weren't shy over there!!! LMAO!

rivermom
09-19-2006, 06:26 PM
I do believe our Janet is blushing. :o

Kimberley
09-19-2006, 06:54 PM
I know you weren't shy over there!!! LMAO!

ssssssshhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:o :o :o

Emmsmom
09-19-2006, 08:05 PM
:yelrotflmao: Oh my!!! You girls aew just too funny! LOL

Ponyup
09-20-2006, 06:41 AM
Honey just treat it like you were a man taking you out on a date feed you get you drunk and take advantage of yourself lol

LOL:D :D

Ponyup
09-20-2006, 06:44 AM
I was always pretty bashful about this myself. (I was raised Catholic with all the guilt that comes along with it). It took my husband to coach me in this and he actually encourages me to do this for myself (of course he gets to peek;) ). Because of him, I bought a "toy". He is really open to all sorts of experiences and has taught me alot. I think it is important that you learn what feels good to you so that you can convey this to your partner.

My husband is even more shy than me about this stuff so that's not gonna happen. I'm so open about everything else I don't know why this gives me issues. I would imagine it's my upbringing also.

Sherry Lynn
09-20-2006, 06:45 AM
What???? You mean it doesn't really make you go blind????:omg: Who knew?;)

Janet
09-20-2006, 07:10 AM
I do believe our Janet is blushing. :o


Oh Dear. Oh Dear....I just do not know what to say. I could just NEVER!!!

ginab
09-20-2006, 08:06 AM
you girls are just too dam funny :)

rivermom
09-20-2006, 09:17 AM
Last night before going to bed I took a bath. (not for THOSE reasons) Lying there I was laughing outloud thinking of this thread. :yelrotflmao:

Mandy
09-20-2006, 09:31 AM
LMAO! Ive had a hard time today trying to stay serious, this thread kept crossing my mind hehehehe

RLC12345678
09-20-2006, 10:16 AM
OMG! There IS another website similar to this one for this kind of talk.:o I plead the fifth on this topic.

And I am sure we are ALL curious to know, exactly what IS that website?! :p :p :p

hle_625
09-20-2006, 10:20 AM
And I am sure we are ALL curious to know, exactly what IS that website?! :p :p :p


LOL! I knew that question was going to get asked! Its topsecret ;)

RLC12345678
09-20-2006, 10:24 AM
LOL! I knew that question was going to get asked! Its topsecret ;)


Huh? and why is that?!

rivermom
09-20-2006, 10:28 AM
LOL! I knew that question was going to get asked! Its topsecret ;)

A secret??? I know it, i know it and I wanna tell. :p

Mandy
09-20-2006, 10:29 AM
A secret??? I know it, i know it and I wanna tell. :p


Ok... so tell :D I'm all ears hahahahaha

rivermom
09-20-2006, 10:32 AM
Ok... so tell :D I'm all ears hahahahaha

Well, since Moderator says it's a secret, and it's her secret i will allow her to tell. But... I will give a hint.

Ok, we have what's here known as 4womentalk. So....think about it.

hle_625
09-20-2006, 10:34 AM
Well, since Moderator says it's a secret, and it's her secret i will allow her to tell. But... I will give a hint.

Ok, we have what's here known as 4womentalk. So....think about it.


LOL! Go ahead, you can tell the "secret"

Carolyn
09-20-2006, 10:54 AM
Tell me why I just went and visited that site!:eek: Janet don't go there girl!:D

rivermom
09-20-2006, 10:56 AM
Tell me why I just went and visited that site!:eek: Janet don't go there girl!:D

Well Carolyn dear, what did you expect to see there? Chicken recipes?? :D

hle_625
09-20-2006, 10:56 AM
LOL! The secret is out;)

rivermom
09-20-2006, 10:57 AM
OMG see... i'm even a PC virgin... i had NO idea it wouldnt show the real link :eek: I typed the four as in 4 LOL

OMG and i think ive had too many Sangria's too!!


LMAO You crack me up soooo much at times. :D

Mandy
09-20-2006, 10:58 AM
Well Carolyn dear, what did you expect to see there? Chicken recipes?? :D

Some "chickens are yummy" do i need to remind ya? :D :D :D :D

Carolyn
09-20-2006, 10:59 AM
Some "chickens are yummy" do i need to remind ya? :D :D :D :D
:eek: :D

rivermom
09-20-2006, 11:01 AM
Some "chickens are yummy" do i need to remind ya? :D :D :D :D


You are a bad bad girl. :p

Mandy
09-20-2006, 11:34 AM
You are a bad bad girl. :p

Shhhh that's my secret :yelrotflmao: :yelrotflmao: :yelrotflmao: LMAO!!!!!!

Mandy
09-20-2006, 11:43 AM
Ahhhhhhhhh, it's all in a day's work. :rolleyes: It's hard being a woman, you know? :cool:

This is the best way to spend a day :D Just think of all the education we are getting :D

Mandy78
09-20-2006, 01:17 PM
So just think, we can learn what to feed our Yorkie, cook a chicken, and have better sex all in a day. Doesn't get any better than that!!


That is my kind of day!!! LOL!!!!
See ya'll over there!!! LMAO!;)

Taurus Babe
09-20-2006, 04:39 PM
First of all, the chicken comment almost made me pee on myself, and secondly this whole thread is cracking me up and thirdly I'm going to have to drop out of school to feed my forum addicition...

rivermom
09-20-2006, 04:41 PM
What should my name be??? LOCKBOX????:D :D


I'm dying over this one!!!!!!! LMAO!!!!!!!!! :D :D :D :D :D

rivermom
09-20-2006, 04:42 PM
First of all, the chicken comment almost made me pee on myself, and secondly this whole thread is cracking me up and thirdly I'm going to have to drop out of school to feed my forum addicition...


It's hilarious all the posts on this thread. And, I do believe it's the longest one 4wt have going yet. Imagine that!! :p

Taurus Babe
09-20-2006, 04:48 PM
Well, sex will peak most people's interest...so there ya go!!! Although, it's lost most talk of maturbation now...hehehe...funny how that happens;)

BabyNicole
09-22-2006, 07:11 PM
This thread is so I can say I did my part today & started a thread.

I don't know how to insert a poll or I would. Do you or don't you? If you do did it take you a while to get comfortable or did you just go for it?

I've never done & it personally makes me a little shy to even think about actually doing it. At the last toy party I went to I bought a little waterproof buddy that's still sitting in his package in the drawer, I just can't bring myself to do it.

What a thread huh?

R u crazy!! Bust out with that toy!! You'll thank me tomorrow!!! LOLOL I actually didn't have an orgasm until I was in my 20's. I still don't from sex, but if I bust out with my bullet and extra batteries, I'm SET!!! You'll never have so many multiple orgasms with a man, I can guarentee that!!! :eek: :D LOL

Janet
09-23-2006, 07:30 AM
Wouldn't an orgasm just be a bigger mess to clean up???? LOL

In all honesty...I don't believe I've ever really had one...I think if I did, I would remember it !!! Oh well, there's a lot I'll never have so, .....CRAP!!!:D

BabyNicole
09-23-2006, 09:36 AM
Wouldn't an orgasm just be a bigger mess to clean up???? LOL

In all honesty...I don't believe I've ever really had one...I think if I did, I would remember it !!! Oh well, there's a lot I'll never have so, .....CRAP!!!:D

Oh that sucks!!!! Trust me, if you had one...you'd know!!! So, who's gonna buy Janet a vibrator for the gift exchange? :yelrotflmao:

Janet
09-23-2006, 11:07 AM
Oh that sucks!!!! Trust me, if you had one...you'd know!!! So, who's gonna buy Janet a vibrator for the gift exchange? :yelrotflmao:


DON'T ANYONE EVEN THINK ABOUT IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :eek: :eek:

Really gals, I'm doing just fine the way things are.....:o

Thanks for thinking about me though....:)

Emmsmom
09-23-2006, 07:27 PM
Ok girls... For the life of me I can't figure this website out!! Someone has got to PM! LOL

Amber_lv
09-23-2006, 08:42 PM
Ok girls... For the life of me I can't figure this website out!! Someone has got to PM! LOL
Me too!!

rivermom
09-24-2006, 05:40 AM
Wouldn't an orgasm just be a bigger mess to clean up???? LOL

In all honesty...I don't believe I've ever really had one...I think if I did, I would remember it !!! Oh well, there's a lot I'll never have so, .....CRAP!!!:D

Janet really? That's too bad. Go to your husband and say "Give me one now!!" LOL :p

Janet
09-24-2006, 06:29 AM
Janet really? That's too bad. Go to your husband and say "Give me one now!!" LOL :p




No, No, No, !!! I prefer things just as they are, believe me. I'd rather have help around the yard and house than sex any day!!!!! It's been 15 years, I'm heading for 20!!!!:)

BabyNicole
09-24-2006, 01:41 PM
No, No, No, !!! I prefer things just as they are, believe me. I'd rather have help around the yard and house than sex any day!!!!! It's been 15 years, I'm heading for 20!!!!:)

Yeah, that's cuz you haven't had the big "O"!! That's it!!!!!!!!! Who knows Janet's address?!?! :yelrotflmao:

RLC12345678
09-24-2006, 01:49 PM
No, No, No, !!! I prefer things just as they are, believe me. I'd rather have help around the yard and house than sex any day!!!!! It's been 15 years, I'm heading for 20!!!!:)

I agree, Janet. It's because you've never had the big O!!!!! I'd take that over ANY kind of help around the house! :p :p :p

Janet
09-24-2006, 03:49 PM
You guys are so onry!!!!! I don't know if I'm gonna visit this thread again or not...LOLOL

You guys just enjoy your big "O" LOL and I'll just keep things the way they are here. I'm settled and I'm not real big on change....LOL :D

Taurus Babe
09-24-2006, 06:56 PM
You guys are so onry!!!!! I don't know if I'm gonna visit this thread again or not...LOLOL

You guys just enjoy your big "O" LOL and I'll just keep things the way they are here. I'm settled and I'm not real big on change....LOL :D
SHOOT. I will promise you something. You would LOVE this change.

Elaine
09-24-2006, 07:22 PM
janet, you dont know what your missing with the big "O" lol
and for the original question...yes i do, most of the time while hubby watches...it excites him we have a drawer full of toys omg did I say that? lmao

Necee419
09-25-2006, 05:58 AM
Maybe this is a tad off topic on this thread, but I was wondering for those with hysterectomies (sp??), is it still possible to reach climax?

Tiger Lily
09-25-2006, 08:04 AM
[QUOTE=Necee419]Maybe this is a tad off topic on this thread, but I was wondering for those with hysterectomies (sp??), is it still possible to reach climax?[/QUOTE


How did I miss this thread? Too funny. I can't figure out the other site you all are talking about & its driving me nuts!! Will someone please PM me?

Yes, Thank God, I can still climax (several times) & had a hysterectomy several years ago. Whew......

Sherry Lynn
09-25-2006, 11:12 AM
Does anyone watch Desperate Houswives???

Last night was hysterical when Brie (sp?) went to the doctor because she didn't know what the Big O was and thought something was wrong with her.....:D

Janet
09-25-2006, 03:55 PM
Does anyone watch Desperate Houswives???

Last night was hysterical when Brie (sp?) went to the doctor because she didn't know what the Big O was and thought something was wrong with her.....:D

I saw that and it was soooo funny. Made me think of this thread...LOLOL

2tiredmom
09-25-2006, 04:08 PM
Yeah, that's cuz you haven't had the big "O"!! That's it!!!!!!!!! Who knows Janet's address?!?! :yelrotflmao:
I do LMAO :D

BabyNicole
09-25-2006, 04:30 PM
I do LMAO :D

Woohoo!!! You know what you have to do for Xmas now, don't cha? LMAO!!!! :D :D But, shhhh, don't tell Janet! :eek: :p She said she's not coming on this thread anyway. Let's see if she was telling the truth! LOLOL

Mandy
09-26-2006, 01:25 AM
I do LMAO :D

If you need any help or idea's just come ask us LOL :yelrotflmao:

khardy57
09-27-2006, 05:19 PM
Maybe this is a tad off topic on this thread, but I was wondering for those with hysterectomies (sp??), is it still possible to reach climax?


And the answer to this question would be Yes, thank you Lord!

Janet
09-28-2006, 05:03 AM
I do LMAO :D


Don't you dare!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'll tell your sister-in-law that you consider her your best friend and want to spend more time with her........:eek HA HA HA HA :D

BabyNicole
09-28-2006, 01:03 PM
And the answer to this question would be Yes, thank you Lord!

LOLOL :D

BabyNicole
09-28-2006, 01:03 PM
Don't you dare!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I'll tell your sister-in-law that you consider her your best friend and want to spend more time with her........:eek HA HA HA HA :D

HEY! You're not supposed to be in here! :yelrotflmao:

Janet
09-28-2006, 01:10 PM
HEY! You're not supposed to be in here! :yelrotflmao:


Ah Oh I've been caught....where's the back key??????? :eek: :eek: LMAO

sashajade
09-28-2006, 02:07 PM
wude wude wude ladies :o :D lol i say if you got a job that needs doing well do it your self lol:D

Nikki
09-28-2006, 02:09 PM
This thread made me think of a comedian I heard. He said if God didn't want us to masturbate, then why did he put those parts exactly at arms reach? It's just too easy to do. Very true!;) Anyway, what is the big secret site? C'mon, I'm dying to know! The hint didn't help me at all.:(

highlans
09-29-2006, 04:04 AM
This thread made me think of a comedian I heard. He said if God didn't want us to masturbate, then why did he put those parts exactly at arms reach? It's just too easy to do. Very true!;) Anyway, what is the big secret site? C'mon, I'm dying to know! The hint didn't help me at all.:(
Me neither !!

AngieGA
10-20-2006, 08:53 PM
Still need the name to that site -- hint didn't help me either LOL

Willow
10-21-2006, 02:41 PM
Oh sheesh!! I figured out the hint LOLOLOL

My next question is do we have to register over there to read the posts? I am just not sure I want to be a member there LMAOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!

Willow
10-21-2006, 02:41 PM
nevermind answered my own question!!!

rivermom
10-21-2006, 02:44 PM
The computer won't allow me to type it out. it's 4sextalk.com (you will see once I hit submit that it wont take)...so, don't type out the "four" use the number infront of sextalk.com. There ya go.

Willow
10-21-2006, 02:47 PM
LOL I think they have censors for sites. That is why it won't let you type it out.

Janet
10-21-2006, 02:54 PM
No ladies....stay away from there....you're going to get yourselves in trouble!!!!

You stinkers....just talk about it all here....I may not post....but if it's not too gross I'll read....ROFLMAO!!!!!

Willow
10-21-2006, 03:00 PM
Well I couldn't talk myself into joining. LOL I read the rules and it said not to post anything sexually orientated...WOW LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!

Talk about a perplexing situation LOLOLOL

rivermom
10-22-2006, 06:07 AM
No ladies....stay away from there....you're going to get yourselves in trouble!!!!

You stinkers....just talk about it all here....I may not post....but if it's not too gross I'll read....ROFLMAO!!!!!


Janet, I swear you kill me!! LMAO!! I always can picture you blush whenever "sex" topics are brought up here. :D

Janet
10-22-2006, 06:57 AM
I just check here once in a while to see if I can learn anything....then I remember...I don't want to learn anything. But it sure is fun reading what you all write.....LMAO!!!:D