Gina
03-12-2008, 05:13 PM
likeI have a little dilemma . This Sunday we celebrate Palm Sunday. My hubby wants to invite his family, dad, SIL and family and BIL and his family over for dinner..
I will try to give you a quick synopsis of my BIL and his wife. They are married over 20 years btw I introduced my BIL to her. BIG MISTAKE! She is a weirdo from day one, very one sided all for her family. Never invites anyone to her house for daughters birthdays or holidays. Period I have been there maybe two times.
Now I host holidays and always have parties celebrating my children's birthdays, graduations etc. She comes to all my parties but always ignores my family , brothers, their wifes etc. She is rude she will go downstairs and sit with her kids by my computer. She does not allow her kids to play with the other kids and they listen. To boot on my 50th surprise birthday party she wasn't coming at first due to her mother being in hospital and she was not allowing BIL and kids to come either. They all ended up coming and do you believe the audacity she didn't even approach me to wish me a Happy Birthday and left without saying goodnight.
Another incident during the summer her kids were running in and out bringing dirt into my house it was a bbq. and I chased them outside along with my own nieces and nephews. I was told by my SIL my side that she told her kids to come inside and tell me off. THE NERVE! When I did go to her house she tells us to remove our shoes, what is my house s***t.
These are just examples and she does not talk to her own brothers and their wives. So now I am fighting with hubby and I refuse to cook for her. She is coming and planting her fat a** by the table . I had dental surgery and I told my husband he will be doing the cooking am I wrong to feel this way? How would you feel if you were in my shoes. My hubby keeps telling me I shouldn't see my brother because she is weird. I said noooooooo go visit him.... I am sorry this is long just need to vent!!!
I will try to give you a quick synopsis of my BIL and his wife. They are married over 20 years btw I introduced my BIL to her. BIG MISTAKE! She is a weirdo from day one, very one sided all for her family. Never invites anyone to her house for daughters birthdays or holidays. Period I have been there maybe two times.
Now I host holidays and always have parties celebrating my children's birthdays, graduations etc. She comes to all my parties but always ignores my family , brothers, their wifes etc. She is rude she will go downstairs and sit with her kids by my computer. She does not allow her kids to play with the other kids and they listen. To boot on my 50th surprise birthday party she wasn't coming at first due to her mother being in hospital and she was not allowing BIL and kids to come either. They all ended up coming and do you believe the audacity she didn't even approach me to wish me a Happy Birthday and left without saying goodnight.
Another incident during the summer her kids were running in and out bringing dirt into my house it was a bbq. and I chased them outside along with my own nieces and nephews. I was told by my SIL my side that she told her kids to come inside and tell me off. THE NERVE! When I did go to her house she tells us to remove our shoes, what is my house s***t.
These are just examples and she does not talk to her own brothers and their wives. So now I am fighting with hubby and I refuse to cook for her. She is coming and planting her fat a** by the table . I had dental surgery and I told my husband he will be doing the cooking am I wrong to feel this way? How would you feel if you were in my shoes. My hubby keeps telling me I shouldn't see my brother because she is weird. I said noooooooo go visit him.... I am sorry this is long just need to vent!!!