Happy Easter Everyone !!!

[HALEY]

Just wanted to wish everyone a Happy Easter! I know i haven't been on this site for a while, been having Family troubles.

Just wanted to wish you all Happy Easter and will pop in next week!

[katcarasella]

Thank you, and Happy Easter to you and yours!! :bunny::bunny::bunny:

I'm sorry you're having family problems, You can always come here and vent, these Ladies have been a great comfort to me.
God Bless!! :ghug:

[HALEY]

Thank you, and Happy Easter to you and yours!! :bunny::bunny::bunny:

I'm sorry you're having family problems, You can always come here and vent, these Ladies have been a great comfort to me.
God Bless!! :ghug:

i will Monday, its a long story and i have to run. i'm having in-law troubles...

[2tiredmom]

Happy Easter to you too. I know from experience that the girls here are wonderful and can give some great advice if you want to take it. It's nice to be able to talk to women that don't judge you. Keep the faith. Your in my prayers.

[DianaB]

Happy Easter to you too, Haley! I'm sorry to hear that you're having in-law problems. I've had problems with mine too. I could tell you some things that have happened with mine but I'd be typing all day long.

[Janet]

Happy Easter to you too Haley!! Hope your family problems end soon so you can spend more time here with us. If there is anything at all we can do...let us know.

Linda...glad to see you're posting more the last few days...keep it up. You're needed here too!

[Tink]

To ALL my dear friends...
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He is not here... He is risen.
Happy Easter!

[katcarasella]

Tink, that gave me goosebumps, it'a beautiful.

[Forgivenmom5]

Thanks Tink. Sometimes we get caught up and forget the reason we are celebrating. I know he is reason because he has sure been with me the past 6 months.

[Tink]

Deb, He's there for you because you were wise enough to invite Him in. I wonder how those who don't get through the hard times.

[Gina]

Happy Easter to all, I hope you enjoy the holiday...

[HALEY]

OK here is the story, my mother in law use to babysit for us on Fridays, and when she came over - her only day with her grandson mind you! she invited her whole family over my house. and this upset me, i really don't like all these people in my house while i am working, i told her about it before and she did it again, i went home last Friday for lunch and there is tons of people at my house, when i told her Micah wasn't feeling well and he was very clingy today. and she threw a hissy 2 year old fit, and quit on me, which left me with no babysitter on Fridays. and she told her whole family and they boycotted Micah's first Birthday party. I was so pissed off!! they are all such babies.
Well the way i see it, there missing out! No me, i got so mad i wrote her this letter and put it in her Thank you card from Micah's birthday. i hope she felt bad when she read it... The nerve of his family taken it out on a little child... They all need to grow up. I try to call this woman to talk about it, but she will not take my calls..

[HALEY]

here is the letter:

Karen,

I’m sorry you and your family could not join Micah in celebrating his First Birthday. He had a great First Birthday party!

I would just like you to understand one thing; I have rules in my house and I would appreciate it if you would respect them. Please understand that I do not appreciate people coming over to my house when I am not home. If they would like to visit Micah when I am there, please have them call me and I would gladly set up a time for a visit.

By you and your family boycotting your Grandson’s First Birthday, please understand that you hurt YOUR son, Mike, and missed out on an important milestone of YOUR grandson’s life.

Now it is up to you! Are you going to exclude yourself from Micah’s life and watch from a distance? Or are you going to take an active part as a Grandmother in his life? It is your call!


Let me know.

[Janet]

Haley, I thought it was a great letter. Right to the point without name calling, accusations..etc. You did good girl.

[HALEY]

Haley, I thought it was a great letter. Right to the point without name calling, accusations..etc. You did good girl.

I really wanted to say more! But i didn't. I just can't believe the way there acting so childish.

[katcarasella]

Haley, your letter was great,:bravo: you took the high road. :thumbup: You're a great Mom!!
Micah is a lucky little boy to have you for a Mom. :teddy:

[HALEY]

Haley, your letter was great,:bravo: you took the high road. :thumbup: You're a great Mom!!
Micah is a lucky little boy to have you for a Mom. :teddy:

Thank you, i just got so sick of his family walking all over me. Micah was so sick that day, and she invited her family over there, and another thing while she is entertaining her family (and there drinking all my pop and eating my food too) no one is watching Micah !!! i am still so pissed off its unreal !!!

[HALEY]

OH and another thing too, some of the people that she invites to my home, don't ever come over when my husband and I are at home... that what really gets on my nerves too.. they eat all my left overs, drink everything in sight.. i just got so sick of it!

Ok i feel better now, got that off my chest !!!!

[DianaB]

I think that you did a good job on your letter too. It's very hard to write a letter when you're upset but it turned out well. I'm sorry that you're having troubles with your in-laws. I have trouble with mine too. Any more I just keep my distance. I hope that your Mother-in-law gets over it and things are better between the two of you. Good luck!

[Gina]

Haley that was a great letter I agree to, its a shame that your MIL and family missed out on the babys 1st birthday. To hold a grudge like that is crazy. This is your home and she should respect your wishes. I hope that she wakes up and if not she will miss out in her grandsons life. A real shame.. Good luck..

[HALEY]

Thanks everyone, she is missing out, she don't even have the balls to pick up the phone and talk to me, she is a spoiled little brat.. she is acting like a child..
we'll i did my part, and the ball is in her corner now.. I'm just going to keep my distance and see what happens.. i been interviewing babysitters all week, talk about something that is very hard to do... trusting someone with your child while you go to work, it's breaking my heart. but i have to get over it, i don't want my child in daycare, i looked at some of them, left crying.. to many kids not enough supervision for me.. the poor little kids were getting pushed around by the bigger kids. and they also have school age kids getting on and off the bus for school..they don't watch those kids good, there just in it for the money i think. that's not for my son, he had private care all his life. i just can't do it.....

[HALEY]

I think that you did a good job on your letter too. It's very hard to write a letter when you're upset but it turned out well. I'm sorry that you're having troubles with your in-laws. I have trouble with mine too. Any more I just keep my distance. I hope that your Mother-in-law gets over it and things are better between the two of you. Good luck!
Thanks Diana, But if this woman don't get her way she pouts like a baby, this woman never had to work a day in her life. her husband always took care of her and spoiled her, so she thinks its her way or no way at all, and she pushes my husband around like that, but sorry i'm not taking her shit anymore, i put up with it since Micah was born, and she just pushed me until i exploded... i can't take it anymore, imagine going home for lunch to check on your sick child with about 4 people in your house drinking coffee and no one is watching your sick child... i flipped...

[Janet]

I really wanted to say more! But i didn't. I just can't believe the way there acting so childish.


Sometimes Haley, that by sticking to the main point, you can actually say more my saying less.:)

[HALEY]

Sometimes Haley, that by sticking to the main point, you can actually say more my saying less.:)
your right Janet, it's just bugging me, i have to learn to let things go sometimes, my child is surrounded by people that love him dearly, and i Thank God for my family and friends.