Thought it was over!

[Janet]

I thought today started off really good. I got quite a bit done around the house and was able to be on here too. About 2:00 pm my Transportation Director called and said that the Leier boys would not be riding my bus anymore after today.

Inside I was happy, but told him I thought everything had pretty much blown over because I hadn't heard anything for a couple of days. Well I guess LYNETTA LEIER (the horrible mother) kept up her email attack. He said she had sent more emails to the Assist. Principal so he decided to move the boys to another bus.

I try not to hate anyone (besides my sister-in-law), but she isn't giving me much not to. She is evil!!! It's no wonder her boys are the way they are, they are just like her. Thinking everything bad they do is someone else's fault. I am just so upset over this. When I get depressed I eat, so I totally screwed up today's weight watching. Guess I'll have to start again tomorrow. I'm one that just keeps thinking about it over and over. I want this to go away now!! Remember the saying that what goes around comes around, well I hope it comes around for her real fast and that I'm there to see it!!

I better stop before I say something really hateful!!!

[Mandy]

Janet, relax girl ;) at least those boys won't be on your bus anymore, and you won't have to see the mother anymore (what a blessing).... let her be, it's quite obvious that woman has a problem. Feel sorry for her, because she still has lots to learn.

[Kimberley]

DEEEEEP breaths! Psycho people! What can you do???

[Janet]

Janet, relax girl ;) at least those boys won't be on your bus anymore, and you won't have to see the mother anymore (what a blessing).... let her be, it's quite obvious that woman has a problem. Feel sorry for her, because she still has lots to learn.

I'm trying soooo hard, but it just has me up in knots again. I just wish I knew what lies and half-truths she's emailing now. I know the Assist. Principal can't show me all her emails, but I don't like not being able to defend myself.

The Assist. Principal even told me that the boys should stay on my bus because it wasn't teaching Collin anything. That he could do what he wants and just be moved. Now he's been moved, so what is the school telling him? I'm hurt, I'm angry, and I would just like to smack the living daylights out of this B*T*H!!!!

All I can hope for is that the good Lord will let her reap the benefits of her horrible behavior!!!!!

[Janet]

DEEEEEP breaths! Psycho people! What can you do???


I know, I read your thread and I thought, I'm not the only one dealing with wackos!!! I just pray they get what is coming to them!!!! FAST!!!!:mad:

[khardy57]

I'm sure that everyone who knows you, Janet, knows what a good person you are! It shines thru in all of your posts! I feel sorry for the children. They're going to be paying for the rest of their lives because of the way she 's raising them. They'll go thru life believing that anything that doesn't go their way is someone else's fault. It's sad.........

[magnolia]

YEAH!!!! This is a GOOD thing!! I know, it doesn't seem like it to you right now but look at it this way....the Lord has answered ALL our prayers over this matter for you that He would somehow take care of this and He did - the boys are now on another bus and YOU don't have to deal with them OR their mother. And as for what goes around comes around? Well, that might just be as fast as you want it to be. See, her kids are now on another bus so now another bus driver has to deal with them (I know, you don't wish that on any of your bus driver friends) but.....it shouldn't take long before an incident happens on the new bus and then psycho mom will be up to her old tricks, new driver routine. The administrative staff at the school and over transportation will see quickly (I hope) that the pattern is just going to continue and they can't keep changing bus drivers to pacify a "oh poor me, my kids never do wrong" mom so....the way I see it, mom is working herself fast into being the chauffer of her kids to school cause they are going to be kicked off the bus! God blessed you by removing this ugliness from your life - be happy, celebrate - don't get worked up over it cause she isn't worth a worry line on your face! See the good in it, I do! And don't sweat the diet thing - none of us are perfect and we "blow" things all the time, whether it's diets or money - just start back tomorrow like you said.

Sending you lots of hugs and prayers - you are going to be fine because of who you are:)

[Janet]

YEAH!!!! This is a GOOD thing!! I know, it doesn't seem like it to you right now but look at it this way....the Lord has answered ALL our prayers over this matter for you that He would somehow take care of this and He did - the boys are now on another bus and YOU don't have to deal with them OR their mother. And as for what goes around comes around? Well, that might just be as fast as you want it to be. See, her kids are now on another bus so now another bus driver has to deal with them (I know, you don't wish that on any of your bus driver friends) but.....it shouldn't take long before an incident happens on the new bus and then psycho mom will be up to her old tricks, new driver routine. The administrative staff at the school and over transportation will see quickly (I hope) that the pattern is just going to continue and they can't keep changing bus drivers to pacify a "oh poor me, my kids never do wrong" mom so....the way I see it, mom is working herself fast into being the chauffer of her kids to school cause they are going to be kicked off the bus! God blessed you by removing this ugliness from your life - be happy, celebrate - don't get worked up over it cause she isn't worth a worry line on your face! See the good in it, I do! And don't sweat the diet thing - none of us are perfect and we "blow" things all the time, whether it's diets or money - just start back tomorrow like you said.

Sending you lots of hugs and prayers - you are going to be fine because of who you are:)


Thank you, I appreciate your post so much. I know my prayers have been answered as far as them being taken off the bus. But what bothers me is the bus they will be riding, that bus driver is one that doesn't really care. She doesn't write her students up for bad behavior, unless it's a fight. She may move them to a front seat, but not often. So it's going to look bad on me if she doesn't follow through with discipline on her bus, plus they will be so good for a month or two. The other thing that bothers me is she is still sending emails to the Assist. Principal. I don't know what they say, but it must have been pretty bad for them to move them to another bus, when the A. P. said she didn't think it was a good idea or the thing to do. Then they move them. I didn't sleep much last night, and I had so many plans on getting some things done today and now, well, I just don't care. We are suppose to go out for supper tonight, but I don't care about that either. I know I shouldn't let it get me so far down, but it has and I don't know how to get over it. Maybe in a few days, I'll feel better, but right now, I just don't care. I just want to go back to bed and sleep the weekend away.

[Amber_lv]

I'm so sorry Janet i wish there was something i could do to help you. But atleast they are gone and you can have some peace and as far as ww is concerned it's ok to slip here and there we know you are doing great!

[Janet]

I've really felt like a total whiner on here lately. Mom's health is not the greatest, but she's a go-getter, her accident which scared me to death, my mother-in-law is going downhill a little faster now, they think the cancer has spread to her brain, then this incident with the bus, and just when I think it's over and can move on, she sends more emails. I'm tired. I've just very tired.

[Amber_lv]

I've really felt like a total whiner on here lately. Mom's health is not the greatest, but she's a go-getter, her accident which scared me to death, my mother-in-law is going downhill a little faster now, they think the cancer has spread to her brain, then this incident with the bus, and just when I think it's over and can move on, she sends more emails. I'm tired. I've just very tired.
Aww Janet i'm so sorry your going through so much i can't even imagine the strain on you. I just want you to know i am here for you whenever and if you need to call someone just pm me and we'll exchange #'s.

[Janet]

Aww Janet i'm so sorry your going through so much i can't even imagine the strain on you. I just want you to know i am here for you whenever and if you need to call someone just pm me and we'll exchange #'s.


Thanks Amber, I really need to quit thinking and posting about it. It is always in my head and I can't seem to get rid of it. I don't want to "get even" with her, but I would like her to know that I do know what she is doing. I wish I could tell her the truth that the A. P. called her the "B" word, so she'd know, it's not just me, knowing how she is, but the whole dang school.

[Amber_lv]

well posting helps you vent and venting is good for you so if you need to keep posting. I know i hate when someone thinks i was the only one and it actually was everyone but you are being the bigger person here.

[Tink]

{{{Janet}}}

I wonder if the reason the boys were moved to a different bus is just to get their bulldog of a mother to loosen her grip on this issue and finally let it end. If any of what she's accused you of was believed, it would have been YOU removed instead of the boys; so I really doubt anyone is taking her seriously. But you can bet they're sick of having to deal with her!

WIth kids that ill-behaved, it's only a matter of time before there's another episode since they seem to have gotten by with it this time. When that happens, people will see just where the problem lies.

Karma will come around and bite them on the butt. ;)

[Janet]

{{{Janet}}}

I wonder if the reason the boys were moved to a different bus is just to get their bulldog of a mother to loosen her grip on this issue and finally let it end. If any of what she's accused you of was believed, it would have been YOU removed instead of the boys; so I really doubt anyone is taking her seriously. But you can bet they're sick of having to deal with her!

WIth kids that ill-behaved, it's only a matter of time before there's another episode since they seem to have gotten by with it this time. When that happens, people will see just where the problem lies.

Karma will come around and bite them on the butt. ;)


Thank you so much, ya know.....with all the crap running through my mind, I honestly never looked at it that way. Maybe you're right, they just want her to go away and if this is the only way to appease her, then maybe that's what they did. I wish I knew for sure, but it does give me some hope and another way to consider it.

[Janet]

{{{Janet}}}

I wonder if the reason the boys were moved to a different bus is just to get their bulldog of a mother to loosen her grip on this issue and finally let it end. If any of what she's accused you of was believed, it would have been YOU removed instead of the boys; so I really doubt anyone is taking her seriously. But you can bet they're sick of having to deal with her!

WIth kids that ill-behaved, it's only a matter of time before there's another episode since they seem to have gotten by with it this time. When that happens, people will see just where the problem lies.

Karma will come around and bite them on the butt. ;)


And something funny Tink, our school...Clinton Central Bulldogs!!! LOLOL

[Marilyn]

Janet, these ladies are right. Think about it, the AP has much more pressing issues to worry about than this woman and her son riding the school bus. The AP just wants the whole issue resolved and ended. In a way, this woman is a terrorist, and she's upsetting you. Please don't let her do this any more. I know it's hard, especially when you know she's probably said untrue, grossly exagerated things about you, but the AP knows your a wonderful person.

Try to not let it bother you any more. You have more important issues to deal with than a psycho terrorist parent.

Love you, M.

[Janet]

Thanks you guys. We did go out and eat last night, made be forget about it all for awhile. Since I was so down yesterday and didn't do a darn thing, I will get off my butt and get the dogs groomed today. The boys need haircuts as well, so that will keep me busy for quite a while today. I just need to get over it and move on and that's exactly what I intend to do, starting today. :)

[Janet]

Today has started off much better. I still feel full from going to Red Lobster last night. Good thing I planned to start WW again after all the depression eating I did the last couple of days...:eek:

But I started again this morning and will give the doggies their grooming and baths here in just a little bit. I had to give them their flea and heartworm meds, so I needed to wait a few hours before I could bathe them.

So far the sun is shining and looking so beautiful outside, so as soon as I'm done, I'm heading out into that sunshine.

Hope you all had a great weekend and thanks for being so supportive over the whole bus thing. I guess it's true, whatever doesn't kill us, makes us stronger...so here goes!!!!:)

[Tink]

Teeheehee on the Bulldogs Janet. :D
Have a nice day and know that people who go out of their way to make you miserable are at least as miserable as they make you... only they can't escape themselves, while you can just walk away. ;)

[rivermom]

It really is a blessing the boys were moved to another bus. It's all resolved now and you don't have to worry about it anymore.

Glad today is looking better for you. ;)

[Janet]

Today has been a very, very good day. I've gotten all the laundry completely done, groomed and bathed 4 Yorkies, vacumed the whole house, showered and hair done, and sat out in the sunshine for awhile. Now I'm just reading some great posts and wishing there were more of you on here with me!!!!!:)

[Marilyn]

Way to go!!! So happy you had a good day!! You deserve it!!

Just wanted to wish you a fantastic week!!!!

[Mandy]

Today has been a very, very good day. I've gotten all the laundry completely done, groomed and bathed 4 Yorkies, vacumed the whole house, showered and hair done, and sat out in the sunshine for awhile. Now I'm just reading some great posts and wishing there were more of you on here with me!!!!!:)


WOW you have been busy, i know bathing yorkies and grooming them is quite a job, and if i remember correctly, you have 4 babies right?

How was dinner saterday night?

[Janet]

WOW you have been busy, i know bathing yorkies and grooming them is quite a job, and if i remember correctly, you have 4 babies right?

How was dinner saterday night?


Red Lobster was wonderful. We had a great time and the food, just WOW. Since I did some depression eating over the bus thing, I just ate what I wanted at Red Lobster and started over yesterday. I gained my one pound back, but that's all. I couldn't believe it. My son wanted the lobster pizza for an appetizer and it was sooooo good. I just love sea food!!:)