How long have you been married?

[RLC12345678]

I thought it would be neat to see how long everyone on 4WT has been married. So, how long have YOU been married?

I've been married for 1 year and 2 months. :cool: So, I voted for 1-3 years.

[Kimberley]

We've been married for 6 1/2 years...been together for 8 years.

[Necee419]

My husband and I have been together for three years but we officially tied the knot in June. So I guess the answer is 3 months going on 10 years. We feel like we've been together forever.:)

[Ponyup]

My hubby & I just celebrated 4 years in august.

[Mandy]

Officially married for 2,5 years, been together for 20 years :)

[RLC12345678]

Officially married for 2,5 years, been together for 20 years :)

Huh?! :confused:

[Mandy]

Yup :) We have been together since may 1984 and tied the knot in may 2004 :)

[RLC12345678]

Yup :) We have been together since may 1984 and tied the knot in may 2004 :)

What does the 2,5 years mean?

[Ponyup]

What does the 2,5 years mean?

I think she meant 2.5 or 2 1/2 years

[RLC12345678]

I think she meant 2.5 or 2 1/2 years

Oh! Duh. I'm a little out of it at the end of the day! :rolleyes:

[Janet]

Started dating my hubby the day before I turned 16. Engaged at 19 and married at 19. Sept. 28 was 32 years!!!:)

[May5]

I've been married for 1 year and 4 months :D

[Gina]

I feel like I have been married forever !! lol actually 24 yrs and 5mts. to be exact....

[Mandy]

What does the 2,5 years mean?


Means 2 1/2 years lol

[Marilyn]

Been married 32 years, 8 months, and 11 days. Hoping we can go another 30+!!!;)

[DianaB]

We've been married for 32 years too!!!

Let's see........to get specific.......it's been.......32 years........4 months.......and.....3 days!!!!

[rivermom]

Happily married now 8 years and 29 days. **But who's counting?** :D

[butterfly]

I have been married for 10 years. :)

[Khristine]

Been Married for 5 hours now LOL

but we've been together for 6 years and 3 months :)

[Sherry Lynn]

We just celebrated 15 yrs of wedded bliss, but have been together for 20. I'm lucky because it just keeps getting better! Since we lived 'in sin' for 5 years before we made it official we got all of the BS out of the way early and knew exactly what we were getting into.

So my thoughts for you, Khristine, is that you know what you are getting into and life will be good!

[Taurus Babe]

Wow! CONGRADULATIONS ladies! Here's to many more happy ones!!
***and if we can count our dogs...Thor and I have been happily married for 1 year and 5 months!!:p

[magnolia]

Hubby and I will celebrate 21 years in January:)

[amandabeth]

We will be newleyweds for the 5 th time on Feb 14, 2007.:p

But we have been together for 8 years total!!!

[cindy0721]

4 Years And 3 Months And 13 Days... Lol

[blowry]

7 yrs in Nov....(second marriage)

[RLC12345678]

Wow! There a lot of people on here who have been married a REALLY long time!!!!! CoNgRaTuLaTiOnS to you!!!!!!!! I really admire you for that. :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup:

[luv4yorkies]

i've been married for 2 yrs. it will will 3 on march 12th.

[RLC12345678]

So, here's a question for all you married ladies....is it true what they say, that the first year is the hardest? Or would you disagree? What are your secrets for a healthy relationship?

[Ponyup]

So, here's a question for all you married ladies....is it true what they say, that the first year is the hardest? Or would you disagree? What are your secrets for a healthy relationship?

Definitely the hardest, but we didn't live together before getting married. In fact until we were married we were long distance & only saw each other on the weekends. We are both loners so living with someone was a system shock for both of us. At about 18 months we hit our stride & it's been pretty good sense.
My best advise is always take your spouses side when it is them against an outside person or thing. The two of you are a team & need to be a united front.

[RLC12345678]

Definitely the hardest, but we didn't live together before getting married. In fact until we were married we were long distance & only saw each other on the weekends. We are both loners so living with someone was a system shock for both of us. At about 18 months we hit our stride & it's been pretty good sense.
My best advise is always take your spouses side when it is them against an outside person or thing. The two of you are a team & need to be a united front.


Oh, I DEFINATELY agree with this one. Hubby and I always talk about this, about how we are a team. Sometimes when we are in a silly mood, we'll say to each other, "We make a pretty good team!" :p :p :p

[Janet]

So, here's a question for all you married ladies....is it true what they say, that the first year is the hardest? Or would you disagree? What are your secrets for a healthy relationship?


I don't think our first year was the hardest. Things went pretty well up until the 7th year. I think after awhile you have to re-adjust a little bit. Kind of like a new car, after so many miles or years, you have to have a little tune-up....:)

[RLC12345678]

I don't think our first year was the hardest. Things went pretty well up until the 7th year. I think after awhile you have to re-adjust a little bit. Kind of like a new car, after so many miles or years, you have to have a little tune-up....:)


I do agree with that one. People change.

[Janet]

I do agree with that one. People change.


Well.....some do, anyway...:)

[katcarasella]

I was married for 38 yrs, and I think the first two years were the hardest.

[Tink]

We've been married 22 yrs, together 25. This is my second marriage... the first one lasted 7 yrs.

[goofywife]

We will be 15 years on the 4th of July!

[CoyoteQueen]

I personally have been married 14 years! However 13 of those were with my first hubby and almost 1 now with E. I have been single 21 years!

[AngieDoogles]

It'll be four years in July. I'm loving it! :)

[Janet]

Marriage can be a very wonderful thing...me...LOL....I want to try something else now...LOL

[Tink]

Janet, it can be a miserable thing too. I know that from my first one. It took me over 4 years to decide to try it again... Greg was proposing off and on for 3 of those. LOL

[Forgivenmom5]

I haven't even dated in ten years. I am not very good at judging character so I just don't try. Even if I found a good one now I think I am to independent to try. I have seen a few really good marriages thow just not right for me.

[Janet]

I understand that Debbie! I really do!

[MsFamousHepburn]

I've been married for just over 6 months now! We love it! Although, it has been hard adjusting because I also moved 3,000 miles away from my "home" to be with my hubby (he is in the Army). God has been so good to us and has given us an incredible church "family" so WA is starting to feel a little more like "home" here lately!

[pope1982]

We are engaged, but we have been dating since 99', living together since 02'.

[HALEY]

We dated about 9 years on and off before we got married, got married June 3rd, 2006, got pregnant on my honeymoon, big shocker hun! Been having our ups and down lately, so don't congrats. me just yet :( working on it...

[Chandra Amaya]

It was four years this past Valentine's day :D

[Emmsmom]

Our 14th anniversary is coming up in July. We will have been together for 15 years tho. I think that our first 5 years were the worst and hardest. He was working for a company that required him to travel ALL the time. We got married on a Saturday at the preachers house with his wife and My granny being there. That was it. He had to leave Monday morning to go out of town. It was non constant and it took a very serious toll on our marriage. He found a new job that allowed him to stay home. Things slowly started to get better. We had to now adjust to the fact that he was home all the time. I guess we did something right. We have made it this far! lol

[Dobie]

We've been together for 8 years, married for less then a year. I always knew he was a wonderful man, but never realized how wonderful than over the past 6 months as we've been undergoing fertility treatments - he has been my rock throughout this emotional roller coaster.

[Gina]

I will be married 26 yrs come May and was dating him for 4 yrs prior...So a total of 30 yrs.. A long prison time lol < joking >

[janc]

We've been married 23 wonderful (mostly) years.

[teri88]

20 years in June!

[DianaB]

20 years in June!

Teri88, it's good to have you join in!!! Welcome to 4WT!! We're a great place and have great women!!