Lindsey
02-21-2009, 09:10 AM
I have been feeling very lonely here lately. I lost most of my friends when I broke up with Kyle - they were his friends first. My other friends have been busy with their own lives. I still hang out with a couple of guy friends sometimes, but I can't even remember the last time I went out for coffee with a girl. I can't remember the last time I was able to just go have girl talk for a night. Scott has a ton of great friends, but I'm not going to make that mistake again, to become part of his group, and then risk losing everyone if I lose him (but I hope I don't!). I love his friends and hanging out with them, but I need my own group on top of that. I hate it when I let him go out for a night with his friends and I'm sitting at home alone... and I know he hates it too. He feels guilty, but he shouldn't!
So this morning I searched and found an ad from a 29 year old woman who said she moved here two years ago and has had trouble meeting women and making friendships, so she wanted to start a group for women who are new to the city. I replied and said I'm not exactly NEW but I have definitely had trouble meeting people now that I'm out of college and not big into the bar scene etc. She replied already and invited me to the facebook group (with 13 other members :)). She is planning a supper in early March so we can all meet each other.
I think this might be a really good thing for me :)
So this morning I searched and found an ad from a 29 year old woman who said she moved here two years ago and has had trouble meeting women and making friendships, so she wanted to start a group for women who are new to the city. I replied and said I'm not exactly NEW but I have definitely had trouble meeting people now that I'm out of college and not big into the bar scene etc. She replied already and invited me to the facebook group (with 13 other members :)). She is planning a supper in early March so we can all meet each other.
I think this might be a really good thing for me :)