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teri88 05-06-2008 07:21 AM

Awww Angie, there isn't anything wrong with you. You just love him! I've been married 20 years (next month) and I still get a thrill when Kenny walks through the door. He's working 2 jobs now and I HATE it so much....I see him for 15 minutes a day. I live for the weekends now because he's home. I hope you never lose that "missing him" feeling when you are apart.

As for the job, take it one day at a time. Don't stress about what will happen after graduation. There isn't anything you can do about it, so don't drive yourself crazy. Everything works out. Maybe not exactly how you expected it to, but it works out.
{{{hugs}}}

AngieDoogles 05-06-2008 07:24 AM

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Originally Posted by teri88 (Post 62051)
Awww Angie, there isn't anything wrong with you. You just love him! I've been married 20 years (next month) and I still get a thrill when Kenny walks through the door. He's working 2 jobs now and I HATE it so much....I see him for 15 minutes a day. I live for the weekends now because he's home. I hope you never lose that "missing him" feeling when you are apart.

As for the job, take it one day at a time. Don't stress about what will happen after graduation. There isn't anything you can do about it, so don't drive yourself crazy. Everything works out. Maybe not exactly how you expected it to, but it works out.
{{{hugs}}}

Thanks Teri. I heard that Kenny is having a hard time. Give him a hug from me and Brendon!

I'm sorry that you have so little time together right now. I think you deserve a picnic in the park, just the two of you, the very next day he has off! :D You two make me smile. It's so easy to tell that you are still madly in love. You'll make it through this difficult time and be even stronger because of it. *Hugs*

AngieDoogles 05-06-2008 08:12 AM

3 hr. 48 min.

I'm gonna take the puppies for a walk...

DianaB 05-06-2008 09:49 AM

Angie, you are so sweet!!!

AngieDoogles 05-06-2008 09:56 AM

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Originally Posted by DianaB (Post 62075)
Angie, you are so sweet!!!

Aww, thanks Diana. You are an angel!

janc 05-06-2008 01:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Janet (Post 62043)
I think it's just wonderful you all love your hubbies so much and miss them. I can't remember the last time I wanted mine to come home....LOLOL

Mine works so hard here that when he sits down to watch tv after dinner, he falls asleep so I'm by myself anyway! (Well, except for the dogs, of course. Thank God for them.)

janc 05-06-2008 01:22 PM

Terri's advice is right on. Things have a way of working out no matter how much we worry. You'll be fine, Angie.

Chandra Amaya 05-06-2008 04:32 PM

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Originally Posted by AngieDoogles (Post 61938)
LOL, no this money is for summer bills. We don't get real money again until scholarship time in the fall.

How are you home already??

half a day on mondays for the first eight weeks. We are considered "in training" until then and leave at noon so we are only part time.

Chandra Amaya 05-06-2008 04:35 PM

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Originally Posted by teri88 (Post 62051)
Awww Angie, there isn't anything wrong with you. You just love him! I've been married 20 years (next month) and I still get a thrill when Kenny walks through the door. He's working 2 jobs now and I HATE it so much....I see him for 15 minutes a day. I live for the weekends now because he's home. I hope you never lose that "missing him" feeling when you are apart.

As for the job, take it one day at a time. Don't stress about what will happen after graduation. There isn't anything you can do about it, so don't drive yourself crazy. Everything works out. Maybe not exactly how you expected it to, but it works out.
{{{hugs}}}

I am so worried about this. i hate when my hubby works night shift at the job he has now. He will be starting where Brendon and i work on the twelth, but he will be working night shift while i work days. there is no way we could afford daycare for the four kids and still survive so this was our only option. now, When I walk in, he will leave. :( I'm so worried about how being apart will affect our marriage.

DianaB 05-07-2008 08:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Chandra Amaya (Post 62178)
I am so worried about this. i hate when my hubby works night shift at the job he has now. He will be starting where Brendon and i work on the twelth, but he will be working night shift while i work days. there is no way we could afford daycare for the four kids and still survive so this was our only option. now, When I walk in, he will leave. :( I'm so worried about how being apart will affect our marriage.

There's little things that you can do to let him know that you love him, even if you only see him briefly. Leave little notes all over the house for him. Put one on his pillow, on the bathroom mirror, in the shower, in the refrigerator, and in one of his clothes drawers. You can leave little gifts but notes are so cheap and easy to do. If you have any time where you can be together then enjoy your time together. You and he can do your chores when you're not together. You'll think of some little things to do, I'm sure. Use your imagination!!

goofywife 05-07-2008 09:14 AM

Most of my growing up years my Mom worked 3-11 and Dad worked 11-7. Mom and Dad had those few hours in the morning when we went to school for themselves. I watched my sisters and brothers (once I got old enough) from 3-7. Families seem to work it out. I hope you find your special few hours together.

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Originally Posted by Chandra Amaya (Post 62178)
I am so worried about this. i hate when my hubby works night shift at the job he has now. He will be starting where Brendon and i work on the twelth, but he will be working night shift while i work days. there is no way we could afford daycare for the four kids and still survive so this was our only option. now, When I walk in, he will leave. :( I'm so worried about how being apart will affect our marriage.



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