Even though we aren't married yet, but will be soon.

I love him the way he is personality wise and everything.. the only thing i'd change was.. i wish he would be more affectionate towards me.. do little romantic things like when we first started dating..

I know its all changed because we've got a baby and everything.. but i'd like for us to have our time together too yenno?

i just wish i shouldn't have to tell him to be sweet to me and have him do it on his own.. i hate asking for things that he should already do. lol..

but other than that he's great. :thumbup: :thumbup:

I would really talk with him about this, because it really doesn't change a whole lot after marriage. With some it does, but I don't think so for most. If you can't overlook it now.....it may get to be a bigger issue later. :)

i wouldnt change anything but then we have only been together 3 years so give it time ladies and in a few years i might be able to fill up the post lol:D

I can see where all you ladies are coming from when you say 'more help around the house'....but unfortunately (and Yes, I am stereotyping) I think this is a man thing.

I will admitt that my guy unloads the dishwasher every morining that it is full, but then he expects some kind of major reward for it or something. I'm always telling him...."Well who do you think shopped for the food, prepared it, cooked it, put it ON the plates, served it, wiped the plates off, put them IN the dishwasher, washed all the pots & pans, put the leftovers away, wiped the table & counters & floors????? AND doesn't mention that she's done it several times!!" Then I ask him, when's the last time you made the bed, vacuumed, done laundry, gone grocery shopping, mopped the floors, or cleaned a toilet?? This usually shuts him up!!

But seriously, I would change two things.
1. Affection, romance, sex......need it more!!
2. Discipline his daughter. She's an every other weekend kid & I don't feel that she's disciplined as much as mine (who is with us full time). Plus, I think he gives her a lot of power.....decisions of what to do as a family are too often left up to her & I am a firm believer in kids are kids & WE are the parents!! I could go on & on here (yes, we have issues) but that would be another thread.

All in all though.......there is FAR more than 2 things that I LOVE about my guy!!

Hmmm....Only thing I think I would change would be sex....LOL I want it lots and lots! and anytime of the day suits me just fine!

I have seriously thought of checking into Viagra for him just because his drive doesn't seem to match mine!

Hmmmmm.... I can't come up with anything off the top of my head. Over the years I must have changed them already!;)

More sex, more places, & different times. He just wants to do it right before bed in bed & want it to be a little more passionate, where he has to have right here right now.

I would like him to be more talkative when we have a problem with our relationship. If he would communicate with me more we could come up with a compromise instead of me telling him what I want, him promising to do it, him ending up not doing it, & me being mad again because he broke a promise.