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DianaB 10-10-2008 12:24 PM

Drat!!! I wasn't on yesterday and missed all of this!!!! How exciting for you, Judy!!!! A date!!!! I think that the girls have given you good advice on being careful and not giving out too much information. Maybe we should all come to your house and help you pick out your outfit and help you style your hair!!! LOL It's been forever since I dated so I really don't have any advice for you there except to just take your time. There are all sorts of weirdo's out there but there's also some really nice guys too.

Just take a video camera and sit it up in an out of the way corner and just record the whole date for us then we'll be happy!!!! You know that curiosity is going to kill us!!!! I hope that everything goes really well for you! Hugs!!!!

Janet 10-10-2008 12:57 PM

Diana...what a great idea...the video... Oh Judy I can't wait...now when is this date anyway?

Lindsey 10-10-2008 01:32 PM

Judy, just take someone else to tape it for you, and tell the guy you're on a new reality show :D

judy 10-10-2008 06:27 PM

Can you imagine pulling out a video camera and explaining that my friends need to watch?

I am meeting him for lunch on Sunday. I always used to take my own car on dates.
That way, no stalkers, and if it's not working out - well, so long honey! I'm wearing jeans. I think they're the most flattering thing for my butt, and I don't even own any nice slacks. I'll wear heels and a pretty, casual top, some jewelry, a little make up, and I guess that's it.

I don't really care if he likes me at first for my looks. That doesn't last long, and, anyway, I'm more interested in whether I like him. They do say, however, that men are hooked by a woman's looks. Women are attracted to a sense of humor,
intelligence, sensitivity, etc.

I'll keep you posted.

Tink 10-10-2008 10:07 PM

Good luck Judy, just remember, if he passes YOUR inspection he still has to pass OURS! :D We have to make sure he's good enough for you. so if you decide on a second date let us know and we'll get our questionaire together for him to fill out. Oh, and maybe a lie detector test to be sure he's on the Up and up? lol

HUGS and have a great time.

Janet 10-11-2008 04:57 PM

My gosh the date is tomorrow!!!! Get a picture of this dude. Tell him you take a picture of ALL your dates so you can remember who is who....LOL.

I hope you like him, hope he's nice, rich, handsome and knows how to treat a beautiful woman. I'm so excited for you!! Do you think he'd notice if you took notes for us???

Marilyn 10-11-2008 05:09 PM

Wishing you well, dear friend!!!

highlans 10-12-2008 11:47 AM

Hope lunch went well:love048:

DianaB 10-12-2008 01:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tink (Post 79136)
Good luck Judy, just remember, if he passes YOUR inspection he still has to pass OURS! :D We have to make sure he's good enough for you. so if you decide on a second date let us know and we'll get our questionaire together for him to fill out. Oh, and maybe a lie detector test to be sure he's on the Up and up? lol

HUGS and have a great time.

I think that a questionaire is a wonderful idea, Tink!!!

Judy........ we're waiting to hear how things went!!!!!

Gina 10-12-2008 04:03 PM

Judy!!! Girlfriend time to check in with us.. We want the scoops??? How did it go?? Come on and tell us already!!!! lol geezeeee

Marilyn 10-12-2008 05:06 PM

Okay, it's 9:03 p.m. your time. Are you still on the date??? Sure hope he's nice.

Janet 10-12-2008 05:10 PM

Judy....you get back here now and tell us about the date!!!

DianaB 10-12-2008 05:16 PM

Judy.....oh, Judy......We're waiting!!!!!!

Tink 10-12-2008 06:47 PM

Ohoh, I hope he didn't run off with our Judy!
We should have given her a curfew to report back to us by.
I just know none of us will sleep until we hear from her! :confused:

Shada 10-12-2008 08:03 PM

Judy!!
Lunch was hours ago! Dinner was hours ago!!!

Where are you?? We are waiting for your report!
Hope all went well and you had a fantastic time.


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