my theory is, if they love you they wouldnt do it.. i dont care how drunk you are.
its done goodbye.,,, see ya later...

I think once that trust is gone, it'll be hard to get back!! Like they say "once a cheater, always a cheater" :confused:

A one time mistake is one thing, it would be hard to get over & it would put a strain, but I would probably try to work through it. An affair is a completely different thing. It's not just sex usually there is emotion involved in an affair & lots of lying. I would have to say an affair would mean the end.

I don't ever have to question my husband and I am very thankful for that part of peace that remains within my heart.

Him and I have been married before and both of us cheated with our spouses for various reasons. We've been down that road so with the marriage we have now we both have such an understanding as to what all is involved physically and emotionally playing that "cheating game". It takes its toll and it's never a positive experience.

I don't agree with the slogan "once a cheater always a cheater" as I am living proof it doesn't hold up.

I can't really imagine having to forgive my husband for cheating because I haven't had to even place that thought in my mind. So, this is a question I am unable to answer. ;)

hmmm...you got a point there!

I've already told my hubby that if he ever cheats on me, I'm divorcing him and taking all of his money with me! ;) I won't think twice about doing it either.

i feel the same way.. i've been with him since i was 14.. and have gone through SO much with him.. he's my rock my bestfriend my everything.. i'd be SO extremely hurt if my boyfriend ever cheated on me..

but i do believe that he would end it with me instead of cheating on me... hes a great man :)

khristine
 

girl what you doing up this late???:p

lol it was only midnight where i was :) My daughter and I were waiting for my BF to come home from work to pick us up at my parents house since we stay there during the night while hes at work...

i had just finished watching Veronica Mars the complete season 1 lol ;)

i've watched a few of those shows they are pretty cool....but between hubby wanting to watch the nerd channels (discovery channel or history channel) and the kids fighting over cartoon network...poor little mommy doesn't get to watch to much...although they know when the closer and sex in the city come on they better get out my face...haha!!!;)

My first husband will tell you that I don't forgive, I get even! When I divorced him I didn't leave him a pot to pee in or a window to throw it out. I fully believe that the first time a man cheats is the hardest time. That's when he has to deal with his conscience. After that, it's all downhill.