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Gina 10-13-2008 07:27 AM

Judy it's well past 24 hrs. since your date.. Where are you????? Geeze I hope that you didn't elope?? lol


Come on woman touch base with us!! We are dying to know the scooops....

Janet 10-13-2008 08:35 AM

Alright....we've had enough of this....Judy....front and center right now!!! Where are you?????

DianaB 10-13-2008 10:50 AM

I can't believe that you've left us hanging!!! Maybe we need to report her missing to the police!!!! How many hours are we suppose to wait?

Shada 10-13-2008 01:02 PM

JUDY!!!

Beginning to worry here... please check in with ASAP!!

Gina 10-13-2008 03:06 PM

Hmmmmmmmmm still no sight of Judy??? Either she had a great time and is recouping or the man was a nightmare and is lost for words. lol


Come on Judy now we are all thinking that you got kidnapped!! :confused:

Gina 10-14-2008 04:07 AM

Day 2 still nooo Judy!!!

Ponyup 10-14-2008 05:09 AM

Does anyone have her phone number? I'm a little worried she took off to meet a stranger & hasn't been back since. Judy....come back.

Mandy 10-14-2008 05:25 AM

It's not like Judy to stay away without updating us, unless she has no internet connection.
I hope all is well with her, and that theres nothing serious going on there, please if anyone has her # give her a call, or PM me the # and i will call.

Janet 10-14-2008 07:26 AM

I'll try to give her a call as soon as my phone is charged. I sure hope she's alright.

DianaB 10-14-2008 08:34 AM

Judy, we're all worried about you. I hope that this is just a case of your computer being down.

Gina 10-14-2008 09:38 AM

I am sure she is alright.. Janet call or shall I ?

Marilyn 10-14-2008 10:55 AM

Judy, OH, Judy.......:scratchhead:

Okay, I can't take it anymore!!! Maybe it was so special that she wants to keep it secret. Or on the other hand, maybe there just aren't words....

At least let us know you're okay!!!

judy 10-14-2008 12:27 PM

I'm so sorry! I was busy all day yesterday, and went to my grand children's school this morning. I promise I will keep you updated more quickly nest time.
(Unless I do elope)

The video of the date is at.......:yelrotflmao::yelrotflmao::yelrotflmao::y elrotflmao::yelrotflmao:I love the questionnaire idea though.

So - the date was really nice! I met him in Delhi, a nice town almost in the middle of where we both live. What a nice man! He's very good looking - salt and pepper wavy hair, blue eyes, not gorgeous, but nice looking. He's very intelligent, very laid back - what a nice quality! I had forgotten, but you really don't have to talk much on a date. Men love to talk about themselves. I didn't have that much I wanted to say anyway. I'm kind of bored listening to stories of my stuff - after all, I already know all about them. Believe it or not, I actually don'thave a lot to say when I first meet someone.

Anyway, we had lunch in a cute little cafe, and then went for a walk. The weather being so beautiful, we ended up sitting on a bench under a gorgeous tree and chatting. I don't think I'll be hearing from him again. He has 4 children from his ex-marriage. Two of them are in their twenties and live in Brooklyn!
His two teenage daughters live with him every other week. I like that - a family man, but when he said his youngest is twelve, I told him that my oldest granddaughter is 11. He didn't say anything, but when we parted to go home, he said he would write to me online. I would think the next step would be a phone call if there was interest.

I think he's very nice, but that we just are in two very different places in our lives. I don't really know what he thinks. He did say that he's very happy being single, wants to take things very slowly when he meets people, etc., etc. I like that too. Clingy men are to be avoided!

What I really got out of this was that I enjoy dating a lot, I like being with a man, there are some very wonderful people out there, and I'm looking forward to meeting someone else to go out with soon.

Sorry about the video - really!

Tiramisu 10-14-2008 12:27 PM

She was out there posting on all the threads except this one. What a tease!

Mandy 10-14-2008 12:41 PM

Glad to hear from you!!!!!
At least Judy, you have made a new friend, if things dont "work out" you will have a nice online buddy to chat with.:thumbup:
It's great, you had a nice time!


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