That's not high school, or at least I hope not because that's exactly what I would do. It's painful now, so to have the constant reminder hurts, especially if it seems like what's happened doesn't bother him. So removing him from your contact list isn't a bad decision at all.

I completely agree. I blocked my ex when we split up just because I didn't want to see his name.

I agree. I'd probably do the same thing. You don't need the extra pain Lindsey.

I feel better today. I didn't think about him as much. I talked to his friend today (we e-mail each other all day at work... I met him the same time I met Ryden) and he talked about Ryden a little... asked if I knew about their big party last week and why I didn't show up. I said I wasn't invited and I had other plans anyway. I don't want them to think it bothers me, because Ryden will find out. As far as any of them know, I cried over him for one day, and then I was over it! I still like those guys, and I still like hanging out with them. It's less weird for them I think if they don't know anything has changed with me, and I'm still the same girl they've always known. I don't want them to think I'm so upset over one stupid guy. Besides, why am I upset over one stupid guy?

Very good :thumbup: . You are getting there girl. One day at a time. :D

I agree! Way to go Lindsey!!!

Ahhhhh there ya go!!! GOOD for you girl :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup: :thumbup:

Well, I think he found out that I deleted him on msn, so instead of making all his plans clear there, he posted on the sportbike forum that we're both part of about 5 times today about what his plans are for parties and that people should join him for a good time and stuff. And to bring this post back around again, I went for coffee with the girl tonight. She basically told me I'm way too cute for him anyway and really, who needs a guy? I got my learners license today for my bike, and she is taking me out tomorrow afer work. I came up with my new motto tonight... "Replacin' boys with toys!" :D

:sidesplit: THat is great! I love it! :thumbup:

ROFLMAO - replacin boys with toys :bravo: :yelrotflmao: :yelrotflmao: :sidesplit: