Go to the top of the screen, dark purple section and hit (Quick Links) It tell you who's online. He-he

lol...learn something new every day huh... i was like...am i being watched??:eek: teehee :rolleyes: silly mee... :D

just two cents, don't want to throw a monkey wrench, but if it's over for good you think sometime, travel! see all you want to see. do different jobs, meet different people. you're way young and this is the time.
i didn't get married till i was 36, had my daughter at almost 39. i did a lot of stuff and don't regret it. got divorced after 5 years and didn't date for 7 years. now, at age 54, am in a wonderful relationship that has give and take and independence.
so, it's true being single is fine. being married is fine. it's up to you.

:) Wow, old thread. Kyle and I have stayed together, but he knows I'm trying to get a job in Australia next year, so we're just not making any long-term plans. We've had rough patches but we do have fun together and we know each other really well, and I think we're both learning from each other. I guess knowing that it won't last forever, I've been able to let some things go that would really bother me if I thought we would be getting more serious. No matter what, I won't be giving up my dreams to travel. He can think what he wants about it but it's my life and he doesn't own me. I need to make my own path and do my own thing and be my own person!

oh dear, guess i need to check dates! saw a new post and read the whole thing LOL...

My daughter went through a relationship with a guy for 3 years.. Before they started dating they knew each other from 5th grade. After he broke up with her for the second or third time... we were talking. It is the relationship and the fun of having a partner she missed... not so much the person. it is very different being single after having a partner. Being single again is tough, but if you arent with the right person you can learn to be single again. How else will you find the right guy? Now my daughter is turning guys down left and right because she wants to make her own choices and she wants to find the right guy. I'm proud of her.

lol! pearl, I just read the whole thread too! lindsey, did he ever adjust to layla? Pearl and I have a friend whose dogs name is layla! About all the drama, the only thing I want to say is since I have gotten older, my dreams have changed. Every relationship I have had has taught me something and I dont regret them. Even the bad ones! but I have found that I dont always end up wanting the things I thought I did. Whether you travel or stay with the bf, I think happiness is something you choose. So be happy girl!!!!!! :)

I am so proud of you Lindsey! You're traveling, growing, and it looks like you're going to live out your dreams!

Hurray for you!

Hi Nicole. Welcome to 4WT.

thanks judy!!! :D