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I have been going through a very tough time in my life for the past 4 months... I could really use your prayers. I would go into more detail but it's personal, and God already knows the whole thing so if you all would just pray for my family I would so much appreciate it. I have a very strong faith in the Lord. There is power in prayer... So please pray. This is the darkest time I have ever gone through and I really want it to get better soon!!! Sorry this is so general but I feel like I can't go into it here.... Thanks every one.

My prayers are with you and yours Brooke.
HUGS

Oh, ((((((Brooke)))))), whatever it is, God has the answer. We will pray that things work out for you soon. Put your trust in Him. We are here for you when you need us. :heart:

Thanks Guys...This is something I can't talk to friends about. It's good to know I have some one praying for me.

I know others talk about things that are personal, but if any one got on this computer (my kids, or husband) They could look up my screen name and see this thread, and they would know I wrote it because my name is really Brooke. Doesn't any one else worry about that happening? I don't think my family would bother but they could and then they would feel horrible about me writting about them here!!!! That's why I won't go into detail.

We all need to be careful how personal we get on here. Not that we are bad and have anything to hide, but it's not prudent to reveal too much on a public forum. I've been pretty shocked at how open some folks have been on here.

Brooke, if you need us, we are here. You can PM anyone you want and share e-mail addresses and communicate more privately if you really need someone to talk to.

Hold on to your faith and know that others are praying for you as well. We care!!!!

I know I have to be one of them you're referring to Marilyn.....LOL :D I'm pretty much an open book. Have been most of my adult life. I'm not afraid to post most anything personal, if I think I can benefit from someones advice or prayers. I'm not worried about my family or friends seeing things I post either. Most of the time they already know or soon will.


Brooke, you know how special I think you are and how grateful I was and am, when you reached out to me. My prayers are with you, sweetie and I'm here anytime you need me.

I pray all goes well for you Brooke!

Sending you a BIG HUG!

My prayers are with you also Brooke, I hope you and your family get through this dark period. If you need a friend PM me anytime...

My prayers are with you also Brooke, I hope you and your family get through this dark period. If you need a friend PM me anytime...

Thanks for praying guys... This situation has been going on a while and I know it will take a while to get better, if it does!

Just wanted to let you know that you've been on my mind. I hope things get better...:)

I'm praying for you, too, Brooke!!!!! Just trust in the Lord. Everyone goes through tough times. It will only get better. (((((((hugs))))))

I had a friend that sent me a card because she knew that this last week was not good for me and my family and in it she wrote this scripture that I'm going to pass on to you:


I'll be praying for your situation, Brooke. Keep us posted even if it's brief.

Thanks guys for the encouragment. Things are worse then ever... I did tell my husband I posted here and he wasn't upset... I'm not sure what will happen but I am praying... I am so tired, and stressed, and my gut has a constant hard ball in it form all this... I feel like I've been hit by a stinking truck. But I know the Lord is working, and sometimes you have to go through the hard times to get to the good times. Please keep praying for my famly. thanks so MUCH!!!

Bible verses are really good for me right now! Thanks....

Brooke, I am praying for you. Hope these are of some comfort:

"My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing." James 1:2-4

"And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose. " Romans 8:28

"Therefore humble yourselves under the mighty hand of God, that He may exalt you in due time, casting all your care upon Him, for He cares for you.
Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil walks about like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour. Resist him, steadfast in the faith, knowing that the same sufferings are experienced by your brotherhood in the world. But may the God of all grace, who called us to His eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after you have suffered a while, perfect, establish, strengthen, and settle you. To Him be the glory and the dominion forever and ever. Amen." 1 Peter 5:6-11

Brooke, I'm praying that you will find the strength to endure and persevere in your time of trial and grow stronger and closer to God as a result.

"Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy meditate on these things." Phillipians 4:6-8

Thanks marilyn, I know trials make my faith stronger...noting is waisted. I know I am being prayed for because I feel the Lords peace in a situation that has no peace. Please pray for my husband also. I know this will pass...I just can't wait to move on to brighter days...

I love the verses but this is a favorite of mine!

"And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose. " Romans 8:28

I've been saying a prayer for you Brooke, I hope things are getting better. I wish there was more I could do for you.:)

This is a horrible situation, but I know I am being prayed for because I feel God's peace even in the storm. I know the Lord will care for me no matter what happens. I feel like I am on a roller coaster and the ups and downs are every day! Thanks for the prayer... it really helps. One thing I can say is the Lord really draws you close to him in the trials!!! You guys are great thanks so much!

Romans 8:28 is beautiful, Brooke. You'll make it thru this situation and one day look back and realize that everything happens for a reason. We may not understand the why at the time, but HE knows the reasons and works everything for your good.

Praying for you.

I am seeing the Lord work through everything. I am praying for the Lords wisdom and guidaance be with me...And I have been praying that I not react in bitter or angry way. The peace Maker is a book for Christians on Biblical guide to resolve Personal Conflict. every Christian should read this book. It gives you insight on handling conflict and shows you the right things to say and do...Pride is huge relationship killer I have come to find out. I read this book a few years ago, but it is helping big time now. The Lord is working and helping me to be the best Christ like wife and Mom I know how to be. I know I would have messed this whole situation up if I hadn't been leaning on the Lord from the start!!! God Bless you all for praying... I can feel it and it is making a huge diffrence!

Brooke, I'm still praying for you and hoping your situation is improving.

Same here Brooke...:)

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Things are very bad...My heart is broken. I think i may be seperated soon. I can't do any more then I have. I know God hates divorce. And I have done everything I can to make things better. I know I have a part in this too but I honestly can not figure out what. I am to the point where if he leaves so be it. I am scared to death because I have no job, no money, and no idea how I would live!!! (I know God will provide but it is very scarey)

I have been married 25 years and never saw this coming. My husband can't see it, he is blind to his behavior and it is BAD...He has no respect for me, breaks promises, and is verbaly abusive. I have a pastor to start therapy with to help me sort this all out.

I want this marrige to work if things can get better... If he can learn to treat me like a wife he cherishes. He needs the Lord in his life again. He has a friend who is the worst influence you can imagine and he spends 90 percent of his time with him... he works with him.

Please pray for my husband to turn to the Lord, and that the Lord will open his eyes to his behavoir, his friendship with this guy as being poision to out marrige.

Please pray for me to stay close to the Lord, and help me stay strong and well... I am getting sick from the stress... My body is starting to show signs of it. I need prayer to stay strong in the Lord. PLEASE KEEP PRAYING.... Thanks.

Brooke, I PM'd you.

Brooke, I will continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers. May peace be with you. I wish there was more I could say, but I've only been married for 1.5 years. Just know that I'm here for you when you need an ear to listen or a shoulder to cry on. God Bless.

Oh, Brooke, my heart aches for you. Please talk to your pastor as soon as you can, and see if you can get your husband to go to some kind of counseling with you. You can't do this alone. God is there to help, but you need supportive, Godly people helping you as well. If, Lord forbid, this does not work out, you are stronger than your realize. You are a very talented, capable lady. You can make it!!!! I'm praying for you and will ask some very Godly women who I know to pray for you as well.

Brooke, my prayers continue for you.
I have been in some situations where I simply could not see a resolution, and God created a way that I would never have thought of. I am expecting this to happen for you as well. Please keep your ears tuned to His word and once you've given the problem to Him, try not to grab it back. I know this is very difficult, because we always think it's OUR problem... OUR responsibility... yet those of us who invite God into our lives must be prepared to give Him the power and the trust to step back and give Him room to work. His blessings will come to you. I pray that you have the patience to wait until the time is right in HIS plan.

HUGS

Oh, Brooke, your news just breaks my heart. Hang in there. God knows what's needed in your husband's life and sometimes HE has to bring a person to their knees to make them look up.

I'm praying for you and your husband.

Always in my prayers Brooke.....:)

Thanks for praying every one... things have been a bit better the past two days. It's seems we do well for day or two then we go down hill again. I am praying we work everything out. He seems to want to too... I guess time will tell... Your prayer help alot!!! Thank you all for they help!!!!

Please pray for us... thing are worse then ever...
 

things are sooo bad... I know the Lord is working and I am feeling pretty strong in the Lord. I kicked my husband out yesterday... But I know things can get better weather he comes back or not.

.Please pray for the Lords strength for me and my kids...And that my husband will turn back to Him...i have to get sleep and eat...Please pray I cant sleep. I'm working on 1 &1/2 hours in a 48 hour period! I need rest... please keep praying for us!

((((((((((Brooke))))))))), so sad to hear the latest development. We can't possibly know what you are going through. It is our hope and prayer that you are able now to have some peace and get some rest, so you can function for yourself and your family. Please take care of yourself & know that we are all praying for you and are here for you whenever you need us.

Oh Brooke, I'm so sorry it has come to this. You know you are not alone. I'm praying God gives you strength to get through this. You need to take care of yourself. Maybe a separation is just what your husband needs to be able to come back to God and to you. You're in my prayers....

Hi Brooke, I will be praying for God to help with the situation at hand, whatever it may be. I hope everything works out for all of you no matter what the outcome is.