What do you think??
 

I got this message in my MySpace inbox tonight from someone who obviously thought she was sending it to Brendon. (My profile picture is both of us.)

She then sent Brendon a message saying she accidentally sent the message to me instead of him. She said they were in chorus together in middle school (over 10 years ago). He didn't remember her at first until he looked at her picture more closely and realized they sang a song together at a country fair one time... She didn't send me another message to say sorry or that it was a mistake or to give me any kind of explanation for such a strange message in my inbox. I would've been so confused if Bren hadn't told me about the message she sent to him afterwards.

Anyway, is it just me or do you think it's inappropriate to tell another woman's husband that you "think about him all the time"? I was pretty frustrated (at her not Brendon). Am I overreacting?

Also, in her message to Brendon she said...

Hmm.... no, in my opinion it's wrong of her to send a msg like that, she is married, with a child, and she know you guys are married.
For all she knows, he could have been married to a jealous, wife, and caused a lot of trouble for him. It's not fair IMO.

Thanks Mandy. I'm not usually a jealous person, but sometimes something will just push my buttons. Intuition maybe? I don't know, but I do not like how blatantly obvious she is being...and my poor naive husband, who would never consider cheating, sometimes doesn't even notice when someone is flirting with him. I guess because he doesn't think about it, he doesn't assume others would...

Angie, since she sent the message to you, it's only fair to reply if you'd like. ;) You could always let her know he had to look her up in the year book to remember who she was. Bwahahaha that should burst her bubble!

She sounds like a sterotypical dumb blonde. I doubt she means any harm but she comes across as dingy and inappropriate.

LOL Tink! You are too funny. :) I figure it's best to just ignore it. I completely trust Brendon and on top of that, he barely remembers her so she's not getting anywhere even if she does have less than honest intentions. It was just slightly annoying that marriage (both hers and ours) could mean so little to her... :mad:

I think it was inappropriate also. It would have been different if she would have said who she was, reminded him of school or something, but the way she went about it was totally rude and immature.

I agree with Tink, she does sound dingy and I would be upset if someone said that to my husband too, but since he's not concerned with it I would just shrug it off. It's pretty obvious to all of us that Brendon adores you so I don't think you're in any danger. This other woman must have some problems and as long as you don't run into her often I wouldn't worry about it at all. If she keeps sending messages then I would either 1) ignore the messages or 2) send her a message back and let her know that you don't appreciate her messages to your husband.

Okay, I'm glad you ladies think it was inappropriate as well. Sometimes it's hard to tell if you're overreacting or not when you're too close to a situation, but it's great to have your feelings justified...