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Janet 06-07-2008 03:37 AM

Dobie...Where are you?????
 
Does anyone know if Dobie had plans this weekend and I missed it? She hasn't been on since Thursday.

DOBIE!!! WHERE ARE YOU???? I'm sorry young lady, but you need to let us know if you're going to be gone for awhile.:)

Hope everything is alright and you're just having a great weekend!!

Dobie 06-07-2008 05:42 AM

Thank you so much for checking in on me! It means so much that someone noticed I wasn't around. To be honest, I've been having a little bit of a pity party - I just found out that a friend is pregnant with her 4th child - and while I'm very happy for her family, it brought up some feeling sorry for myself feelings - I was sort of in hiding for a few days.

But I think I'm back to myself now.

Gina 06-07-2008 05:55 AM

Dobie come back.. I understand how your feeling but honey don't dwell on it.. I know its easiest said than done... We miss you and want you to keep smiling.. :)

teri88 06-07-2008 07:41 AM

awwww, Dobie I am sorry! I remember those feelings. I was actually on both sides of the situation. My two kids were born after infertility treatments. My sister was unable to concieve and we were both so happy with each of my pregnancies. Then, when I thought I was done, I ended up getting pregnant on my own. I was very shocked! One of those "it could never happen" situations. Anyway, my sister was still trying and I remember feeling "how can I tell her I'm pregnant again". God has his own plan, and it ended up that she did get pregnant right after me but my baby, Erin, was stillborn. I have a very special bond with my sister's son, Shawn because of it.

My prayers are with you...hang in girl, and it's ok to have a pity party once in a while, it really is!

Janet 06-07-2008 09:13 AM

(((((hugs))))) to you Dobie. I remember so well those feelings and it's hard to dismiss them when we want it so badly. If there was anyway I could make it better for you, I would. Just try to keep busy.

judy 06-07-2008 11:22 AM

Dobie,

Come here for support. We love you!

DianaB 06-09-2008 02:39 PM

Dobie, I'm so sorry. I had a friend that got pregnant at the same time I did and then I miscarried. I had a really hard time when I saw her after that and when the baby came I cried. Her son still reminds me of what I lost even after 18 years. Come here and let us hug on you for a while when you're having a hard time. ((((((Dobie))))))


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