I know, I'm really not good at standing up for myself. It took soooo much courage the first time I talked to her about it. I think if this were a situation like if we worked together and it would be long term, I would either tell my roommate to leave, or find a new roommate and I would be gone. But right now it's not worth it for the month and a half we're living here.
And even though they've known her for longer, my boyfriend and his friends are pretty much on my side about this whole situation, which makes me feel better about saying anything to her. Before I was just worried it would cause a big rift when everyone was getting together.
BTW, she did show up last night while I was on the phone in my room. I didn't even hear her come in, but when I brought the phone back out, there were her ratty old sandals at the front door. I let my dog chew on them a bit
