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Janet · 10-27-2006, 04:13 AM

Good luck Lindsey! Don't worry about courage...just tell her "look, I have homework, studying, and things that I need to get done. If you're going to be here, then you need to help clean, cook...and HELP WITH THE RENT and then show her what her share is. That ought to scare her!

If you don't think that will work...just tell her flat out how you feel and tell her you want to keep her as a friend, but it won't happen if she doesn't give you space. Your apartment is YOUR space and make it clear.

10-27-2006, 04:13 AM	#12
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	Good luck Lindsey! Don't worry about courage...just tell her "look, I have homework, studying, and things that I need to get done. If you're going to be here, then you need to help clean, cook...and HELP WITH THE RENT and then show her what her share is. That ought to scare her! If you don't think that will work...just tell her flat out how you feel and tell her you want to keep her as a friend, but it won't happen if she doesn't give you space. Your apartment is YOUR space and make it clear. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1