Mike loves to buy things for himself, too. But he has never minded if I spend money. It's because he never pays a bill, or gives it a thought. It's just that HE is on top of his own priority list. That is a foreign concept to me. You'd think I would be used to it.
I actually know what's wrong with me. It's easier for me to be mad at him than deal with the FEAR that I have after his heart scare. One of these days the doc is going to come out and say there is nothing they can do. Geez... I am my own therapist