Now I think I understand a little bit more. I thought as I was reading your first post that this was probably to do with the Catholic church but wasn't sure. I bet it was very special to watch your grandchildren reading their stories. How very sweet Judy
I too understand why Jessie feels she wants to fit in. It is very important to young people, espicially those with school age children. Next time maybe she'll wear jeans

Glad all went well.
I think the crosses are a wonderful idea.