[DianaB]

Thanks for your comment. The dumb part is that we live in the same community with most of his family so we see them all around. His aunt has just gotten a burr in her bonnet and just won't let go of it. I'm probably in trouble today because I talked to her daughter-in-law. As you said "it's a lose-lose situation", but I'm not worrying over it. I'm just sorry that she has to be this way. The family is already difficult and this makes going to their family things harder for me.