Ahhh Lindsey I am so upset for everything you are going through, and baby Layla.....
I think he must be feeling a little bit neglected (I know he shouldn't and needs to be supportive), in my experience most men are not good with coping with illness and crisis, I personally think he is being a little selfish, but i am sure deep down he really doesnt mean to. Sometimes how a person is behaving and the affect it has on others are not always obvious.
It is difficult for any couple trying to get through times like this, it just needs working out. But i know it is very hard for you, and i totally understand how you must be feeling..... like you are doing it all alone.
Maybe you do have the very strong maternal bond with Layla that he doesnt have, even though i am sure he loves her very much.
Take care I hope this all works out well for all of you, stress makes people say and do unpleasant things at times, I am sure once you get through it you will be a stronger couple
Sending you all a big hug... especially darling Layla.
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Diane.
My Mottos are....
 Just live for today..... and let tomorrow take care of itself
 Live each day as if it's your last - and hope that tomorrow you wake up to find that it wasn't
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