Diana, I have a brother that does drugs and alcohol. He has completely ruined his life. He had a great job for 25 years and made 6 figures. He has wiped out every cent he saved. I have taken him to rehab twice myself. He is a good-looking, kind hearted man. I want to beat some sense in to him with a baseball bat every time I see him...which isn't often anymore. Try hard not to kill your brother