I'm just seeing this Janet. I'm sorry, and I do understand. I had the same problem with Mike's dad. He was so hard headed about driving. But I truly did not understand the danger until his neighbor called to tell me he was afraid to let his kids play outside because he was scared Bill may hit the gas instead of the brakes and run into his kids
We finally settled it by letting him keep his car, so he didn't have to tell his friends he couldn't drive
But then I had to drive him everywhere. What a pain!