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Originally Posted by Janet
Sad to say it didn't work out....in more ways than one. The interior was really kind of cramped so that was disappointing. It was a lot smaller than I thought. My husband showed up and I could smell the beer on him. He wasn't drunk or anything...just smelled. I could tell he didn't like it and later told my son that he wasn't going to help take care of it if something happened to it. I really kind of thought that maybe it would help make things a bit better between us if we could do some of the things we used to do. But....I really don't think it will. Alcoholics suck to live with......
So.......I'm telling him today that I want out of this hole of a marriage. What a way to start the holidays.
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Oh Janet.... I am so sorry it didnt work out for you with the motor. I think it was just not meant to be.
With regards to your husband Janet, I only know bits about your life that you have shared on here, but I honestly think you should definitely get out and make a new start, you know what i am going through with my Aunt etc, and Janet life is TOO SHORT to wait for the right time, the right time is now if that is how you are feeling.
I truely understand that the practicalities will be difficult to sort out, but you owe it to yourself to have a happy life. Your son is old enough to deal with how things are and i am sure he will support you and you can help each other through it all.
I am sorry for spouting all this, but i do feel like i can give you my opinion as it is only given through concern and well meaning.
I am sure you will do what you believe is right.
A big hug coming to you from England
