Boundaries Janet. They are important. You will drive yourself crazy if you don't have boundaries. You are not a couple. It is hard but important. Let her know that you love her and will be there for her but that there will be things and times that she won't be a part of. It just has to be that way or you will lose yourself and you will not be happy. It was not rude of you to leave the room and your mom needs to understand that your life does not completely revolve around her. Again it is hard but necessary.
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Gayle
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