[Janet]

Don't get me wrong ladies....I know my Mom loves me, I have no doubt!! AND I do love her. It's just our personalities I guess. I'm more worried and concerned for other people and it's the opposite with my mom. She comes first then everyone else.

She has 6 grandkids. Only bought them something at Christmas. Never invited them to spend the day/night with her. It's always what someone can do for her, especially if it cost money. She has enough to not have to worry, but it's for her. She said that "they have parents to buy for them." We just don't see things, life the same way.

IF I ever need her...she's always right there. BUT she never lets you forget it either.

It's not like this is something new....she has always been this way..more so after my father passed in '73.

Myself....I don't want to have any regrets, although I'm sure I'll have some. If I lived my life like my mother...I would have so many regrets.