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I am so glad you were able to share that with us and that you feel better. I have no idea why you attract unstable guys - maybe it's because YOU are more stable and make them feel they have someone to hold them up. I'm just babbling, I really don't have a clue.
I know that I like certain types of men, I don't think I would ever be attracted to someone who wore a suit to work. LOL! Isn't that ridiculous! I've always been attracted to men who do manual labor, like carpenters (Gary), cowboys, ranchers, oil field workers,
and the like. So, there must be a type that we are attracted to.
I remember reading once that we choose people who we feel are not "better" than we are. I know I came from a very poor rural upbringing and I am very uncomfortable around people with power or money. I don't know what to say or do.
I know that I love my husband with all my heart, but if anything happens to him before me (which is extremely likely), I will never marry again. I don't think I will ever be romantically involved again, but I probably should not say, "never". I love being alone, I love working with women, I do not like the company of men (in general), so I feel comfortable in saying that. Oh well, I am completely off topic.
Judy, again I am so glad that you could tell us your story and feel better. You are such a special person and I hope you know that.
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 Gayle
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