Goodness it must be so worrying for everyone, i understand the health provision is very different in the States to ours in England, when i hear your stories, i thank my lucky stars that we dont have that worry, we have unlimited access to free health care (well we do pay through our National Insurance and Taxes), but it is free at point of access.
Your right it is good that a person has someone looking out for them, i remember when i was at the hospital with my Aunt, some patients didnt have any visitors at all, and i was so concerned about decisions that were made, about their care, with out someone looking out for them.
Even now i am the only carer for my Uncle..... and i have to double check his medication, sometimes the pharmacists make mistakes, and what worries me is if the older person lives alone and doesnt realise it is a mistake
