[DianaB]

Lindsey, With two other people coming to look at the motorcycle Scott should have held out for full price or gotten his number to call back after the others had looked at it. Oh well, it's done. Just remember that for next time.

Gayle, It's too bad that your lawn guy doesn't call back. At least he should tell you that he's not going to make it this summer so you're not left hanging. I hope you're able to find someone that does a good job.

Janet, I forgot that you were on Spring Break! I hope you were able to do something fun or relaxing.

Has Ricky checked into an FHA loan? They are for people just starting out and his payments would be low. They have a lot of paperwork to fill out and the homeowners have to have everything just so but it would be good for him on a limited budget.

We're all in shock especially Dae Lynn. She and Damon had gone on a date night Saturday.....out to eat and a movie and she said that it was one of the best nights that they've ever had......then to come home yesterday and have all of this happen. It just hasn't soaked in. She said that she knew that the next time something came up that she was just going to do what she knew she needed to do......not go on emotions and this morning she was really struggling with her decision even though she knows that she's finished. Glen and I decided that we're not allowing him to live here again. If she wants to stay with him....that's her decision but we don't have to live where we're always trying to figure out whether he's lying or not.......or hiding things.

I guess that Sunday after church Damon was snippy......like when he was chewing before.....he needed to get right home after church to get a dip and Dae Lynn asked him if he was chewing. She said that she'd rather know than find out he was lying and he denied that he was but she had her suspicions. After we were talking yesterday she realized that right after they got home from church Damon went to the basement then went on a 4-wheeler ride. Even after she had the evidence in hand he tried to tell her that it was old......it had a lot of juice in the cup.......and that the can of chew she found was an old can. She said that they had cleaned out the desk before they moved it here. He just told lie on top of lie. Let me repeat......it's not the chew.....or smoking....which he's been doing as well......it's the lies.

There's also a bottle of Hydoxycut that I found in the Tahoe before we went to Brenda's. I brought it in to Dae Lynn because she and Damon had been the last ones to use the Tahoe and Damon denied that they were his. When I got home I asked around and couldn't find anyone they belonged too and couldn't figure out why they were in my vehicle. Dae Lynn and I discussed what to do with them and decided to throw them away but ended up setting them on the counter. Before that we had counted the pills and wrote the number on the bottom of the bottle. Well......yesterday I checked and there were 4 pills missing. I checked on the internet and they are high in caffeine.....which Damon uses in large amounts.....Cokes......Coffee......Energy drinks......etc. He told Dae Lynn that he just couldn't see them going to waste by throwing them away and that, yes, he had taken some.......but that they weren't his!!! Lie after lie!! If he can lie about such small stuff then what happens when there's big stuff. You just can't trust him and what do you have in a marriage that doesn't have trust?

I do care for Damon but I'm not supporting him anymore. As for Karlie he has said that she can stay with Dae Lynn until school is out but he wants her on the weekends. No mention of wanting Dean.......just Karlie because he knows how much it would hurt Dae Lynn to have her taken away. We talked to Glen's Aunt who works for a lawyer and there's a card we can play in court......and that's that we're are acting as her Grandparents and she lives with us. It's not much but the judge here in town knows Damon and his problems. We hate to involve SRS because it could get Karlie's real mother involved and we don't want that. Sigh.......what a day!!!

Dae Lynn went to work today but she has some things to take care of at the bank. Damon spent last night with Glen's brother who employs him but it was only for last night. Today he'll be looking for a place to stay and his sister and Dad aren't involved at this point. If he leaves town he can't drive back because he doesn't have a license (hasn't had one since they've been married for 3 1/2 years) to drive back to work.

Keep us in your prayers!!!