[DianaB]

Your girls shouldn't be paying for the whole funeral!! Is the wife helping out? She's the one that has all of his "stuff" and the responsibility should be hers......not the girls!! Was she there to help decide funeral arrangements? That sounds stinky to me!!

As for the locked box.....I'd say that you will find it. It's probably still there but you've misplaced it with everything that's been going on. I can't imagine that someone would come in and only that that one item......you'd notice other things missing.