[DianaB]

It sounds like Ricky is getting tired of her too. I would stay out of it and let Ricky handle it. It will do him good to take care of his own business. He certainly doesn't need someone bossing him around.

I had a sister-in-law, now ex, that wouldn't give her husband a moment's peace. She texted and called constantly. She always told him what to do. When they divorced he almost had a nervous breakdown because he didn't know how to run his own life. It's been a few years now and he still has problems coping.