[Janet]

You don't really have to budge either. I think your feelings of your first anniversary are justified. If it's really not that important to the two of you to be the Godparents to this little girl, then tell them your very first anniversary is a very important day for you and that you want to celebrate it in a special way. If it is important to you to be the Godparents, then it becomes their special day and you must do it on that date. You will have to think it over more and decide which is the most important to you.