[Janet]

Thank you all so much, you have no idea how much it helps and means to me. I am really watching what I say to him....there is no way I would want our relationship to be estranged. We are as ready as he is to be out, but even renting, with what he makes and the bills he owes, he won't be able to afford it. BUT.....Ricky has decided to sell his truck. He just can't afford a truck, car, insurance for both and plates. This will allow him to pay off all his bills except for one student loan and put a little back. So there is hope at the end of the tunnel.