[DIANE W]

I agree about letters, often not showing the true meaning, but personally i could not trust myself to keep calm and cool enough for a face to face confrontation, to me she sounds like she wouldnt be receptive, and the danger would be a huge argument that would make things worse.

I find with a letter in black and white, it can be re-read and digested, hopefully giving an opportunity to see your point of view - where spoken words can be twisted somewhat.

You do what is right for you Lindsey..... maybe nothing if thats what you decide, we all handle things differently. As i said though i would put it behind me and not have any contact unless necessary, shame i know, but its just not worth how it makes you feel.