[DIANE W]

Oh poor you, i just knew this wedding was going to be fraught with controversy.

You are right in the middle of everything, Lindsey i dont know how to advise you, it really is a difficult situation for all your family. I feel for your poor Mum too, weddings should be reasonably stress free and a happy time, even the planning stage.

I would just listen to all of it, try to say as little as you can, and dont get drawn into all the trauma..........easier said than done i know, just tell people that you cant control them, its nothing to do with you, how they arrange their wedding!!!!

I agree though, they do sound as though they are doing it all to control and spoil your cousins evening.

The sooner its over the better.