[DianaB]

I would have to say that it's both. We have so many things that we're alike on. We both have a sense of humor, a desire to be careful with our money, our love for God, and so many other areas that we're alike too. Our differences actually help us to balance each other out. He's a very lenient parent where I'm the disciplinarian. He likes everything to be very neat and clean (he was raised in a very, very dirty home) and I keep things neat but tend to let things go a little. Whenever we have a problem we try to work it out but after 32 years there's not too many problems to work out.