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					Originally Posted by Janet
					
				 I wish I would have talked with my mother before we got married.  She was not asked for permission.  Dad was already gone by then.  I remember about 20 years ago, Mom told me that when hubby and I were dating, they hoped I didn't marry him.  I had no idea!  My Mom loves him to pieces now, but I wonder if I had known that, if I would have married so young (19 years old).  I tell everyone that asks, to wait as long as possible.  Too much growing up yet to do, at least for me, anyway. | 
	
 My mom and my grandmother (who married when she was 18) have both always told my 2 sisters and me to wait as long as possible to get married.