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Originally Posted by cindy0721
i agree... hubby and I have had our share of arguements over this... I stand by my conviction it is wrong and maybe somepeople are ok with it.. I'm not... and if that means that I will forever be alone so be it.. I have caught him doing it and already told him.. it happens again thats it.. I'm done... it's a hard decision because it is not easy ending your marriage over something like that but I see it as a form of cheating.... am I wrong to think this? This is just one thing I can't live with.... no matter how hard I try...
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No, you are not wrong at all. Your opinion and values should mean more to him than the porn. If you tell him that you feel disrespected and maybe even unattractive or not sexy to him, then he should be willing to give it up for your happiness. I highly recommend talking openly to him and telling him exactly how you feel (in a non-aggressive way) before you make any decisions. But I agree that you should stand by your convictions!
Sometimes men just don't understand how lucky they are. I'm sorry he isn't respecting you like he should. *Hugs*