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Originally Posted by cindy0721
i agree... hubby and I have had our share of arguements over this... I stand by my conviction it is wrong and maybe somepeople are ok with it.. I'm not... and if that means that I will forever be alone so be it.. I have caught him doing it and already told him.. it happens again thats it.. I'm done... it's a hard decision because it is not easy ending your marriage over something like that but I see it as a form of cheating.... am I wrong to think this? This is just one thing I can't live with.... no matter how hard I try...
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Cindy, I have to disagree with you here, Viewing porn is not a form of cheating, no way, no how. Cheating is when your spouse has an emotional or phycial affair with another women. Not viewing on computer or magazines. I have to agree with Sheryl and Rebecca here. I am married a long time and at the begining of our marriage my husband and I did watch some tapes together it is suppose to enhance your own sex life , spice it up. I haven't watched one in years, I have come across websites that my hubby has frequent. I have not confronted him or care to, who cares, I am a very secure woman and am not worried about him running off with another woman, this is fantasy besides. . Cindy don't end your marriage over something like this. When other aspects are good, if it bothers you don't go looking where you dont belong...You need to trust one another.