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Originally Posted by cindy0721
I thank you all for your opinions... but it's the way I feel about all of it.... It botheres me more so because when the topic is brought up he gets extremly defensive.... I have to ask myself why.... if he has nothing to hide, then why get defensive...?
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Honestly, he's probably defensive bc he's embarrased to talk about it with you. That's why my hubby and I have a don't ask, don't tell policy. We fight too much as it is. Since our marriage is going great right now, that is one thing I chose not to bring up. If our marriage starts getting rocky and I don't feel secure anymore, then maybe that WOULD be something that needed to be addressed, but right now, I just don't even want to know. I've never caught him looking at it and he doesn't do it in front of me if he looks at it at all. I honestly have no earthly idea if he does or not.