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Originally Posted by cindy0721
You know we have been married 5 years this June .... it still amazes me that it took us this long to hit this BIG of a stump... is this usual? 
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I'm glad you've come to an agreement. I think that's the most important thing...not whether he does or doesn't do something (this could apply to anything), but that the two of you have an understanding. So congratulations on getting to that point!
As for not hitting a major bump until this point in your marriage...I can only speak for myself, but I've been married nearly 3 years and we've yet to hit a "major" bump, so maybe it's normal for things to run smoothly for the first 5 years.