Quote:
|
Originally Posted by Ponyup
I'm so pissed off right now, & I'm even more mad because I don't want to be pissed.
Here's the story, My husband & I hang out with a friend of mine for high school & his wife. His wife is a very attractive girl. My husband is very shy, but as he gets to know people he becomes more friendly; however, I think he's becoming too friendly with her. My husband is not a jealous person at all, but I am very jealous. Sat. night we were hanging out getting drunk for St. Patrick's day & I thought he was being overly friendly with her. I was also pissed because he told her we were using our bonuses to get a hot tub which hadn't been decided yet. I was pissed at him most of sunday, but we ended up hashing it out & I thought we were cool. Well come to find out he texted her last night after we got back from hot tub shopping telling her we were getting one that would be delivered in a few weeks (again this has not been decided yet). He did not tell me he was texting her, I found out from her husband who IM'ed me & told me that she got a text saying we were getting a hot tub. A text I had no knowledge of. I just called him pissed & he claimed it was an experiment to see if she'd tell mark (there tends to be a communication disconnect between the two). I wanna believe him, but I don't. I told him I don't want him having contact with her that I don't know about. Am I being to harsh? I don't wanna be jealous, but this is so unlike him.
|
I am trying to be objective here, for starters your husband telling your friends wife about purchasing a hot tub whether it was decided or not should not merit you to get pissed over that. He was just probably making conversation. Now for him text messaging her that was wrong, I do think he did it innocently and by all means your friends wife didnt hide it from her husband. Why would it be important to him? , too experiement whether your friend's wife communicates with her husband. I don't feel that is his place to do that. I am trying to put myself in your situation and if my husband was texting a friend's wife, I wouldn't like it , unless he was doing it for a reason, if she asked for a favor etc. I am not his keeper, but to text a woman to say that he was purchasing something is not a valid reason. Unless they are good friends.This is just my opionion , I am sure the others will chime in.