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Originally Posted by Janet
Communicate....Communicate.....Communicate!!!
You have got to keep the lines of communication open. Discuss this with him, tell him how you feel. But don't do it in an accusing way...there is no proof that anything is wrong. Just talk it out. |
See I thought we had talked it out, I told him that it wasn't anything to do with her, it was the fact he doesn't do it with me that hurt me more. He claims he was drunk & had I been sitting there he would of put his arm around me. I don't wanna not trust him, but it feels weird for him to talk to someone besides me. He doesn't talk to anyone & that's what I like about him, I know that sounds selfish, but it's true. I know he likes her because they end up talking while my friend & i reminisk about people they don't know. However, i know that when she gets drunk she tells him that she's unhappy with my friend, or they don't have sex very often things like that. I'm just afraid of them getting close because that's when cheating starts. I honestly believe that he would never cheat on me, but I also know i would just die if he ever did. Cheating isn't something I can forgive, but I couldn't lose him either because he's my everything.