[Marilyn]

Originally Posted by rivermom

I realize it all depends on the situation at hand and in no way do I want to say no or yes to your situation. But honestly, a womens intuition is very STRONG. And if you are uncomfy w/ the situation then I feel you have every reason to stop that situation. Your marriage comes first, friends second imo. If ANY friend ever came between hubby and I, Id have to confront the situation and make changes to please my marriage. At times, it has called for losing a friend...........

OMG! First off for this lady to open up to your hubby about her sex life is totally uncalled for and not appropriate whatsoever! No male and female should EVER discuss personal information about the sex life within their own marriage to another male or female. What happens in the marriage bedroom is to stay in the marriage bedroom unless all couples involved kinda just chat/joke about it. But in this ladies situation to be opening up to your hubby just aint cool at all.

Adding booze to the situation just makes it all the worst. Don't even get me started on this subject. WOW

I completely agree with Sheryl's comments above, and Angie's also. Your husband and this woman are playing with fire here. I've seen it all too many times. You are doing the right thing to "nip it in the bud". Bad things can start so innocently. Even if your husband doesn't cheat physically with this woman, he may be doing so mentally. Better to end a friendship than lose your marriage.

Hope all this works out well for you and strengthens your marriage in the process.