Tink - You have some HUGE situations in your life going on. So you being preoccupied is so not abnormal. Rest your heart girl and you might say I am crazy when I say this but...."Give those thoughts you obsess about to the universe and let it take care of it".
I am sure you went into that interview realizing you are qualified for this job, deserve it, and want it. Your positive energy more than likely was picked up on by the gentleman who interviewed you.
And the neighbor young man who crashed into your home I feel was for a very good reason. You helped him tremendously and lead him into seeking help. No real harm was done physically to any of you and the results to this man are going to be life changing. You deserve such a big hug for how you handled it all. (I will never forget that thread you sent out talking about it)
And yes, I too have obsessed about certain situations.
Mandy clearly can hold up a big flag saying "Yes she has, OMG it drove me insane constantly hearing about it!!"
So rest your heart and mediate on some things that bring you peace and relaxation.
I forgot to add. You leaving your employment at the bank was a great move!! You should be very excited about that closure in your life. You leaving has opened up some great doors for you!!